I liked the Mayo Clinic book. Right now I'm reading Heading Home With Your Newborn and Happiest Baby on the Block, but I'm toward the end of my pregnancy. They are both good books for FTM though. I'm pretty comfortable with babies, but I realized that there is so much I don't know about actually raising the kid!
I have the Mayo Clinic book on my Kindle, and just borrowed paper copies of the Girlfriend's Guide and Your Pregnancy Week by Week from a friend....haven't gotten a chance to read them yet though. The same friend also threw in My Boys Can Swim for J...he hasn't started it yet but laughs every time he looks at the cover. It's gonna be a long nine months, I think.
I decided against pregnancy books. From what I could tell, I could get the information I was looking for from week-by-week pregnancy apps (like What to Expect and Babycenter) and friends. Everything else seems to be repetition of the same basic information and common sense. And I avoided WTE like the plague... I don't like fearmongering. A coworker gave me a copy of it... I took a quick look through it and it wasn't a good enough book to make being TERRIFIED I was going to lose the baby every second worth it.
I've heard good things about the Mayo Clinic book and The Panic Free pregnancy.
I think last time I was on the babble.com list, but I'm not sure if they still do the week by week emails. They seem to have been bought out by Disney and made totally impossible to navigate. Thus far, I'm just peeking at the alphamom.com calendar.