DH hit the level of sales this year that we get to go on the company trip. This year it is a six day all inclusive in punta Cana at the beginning of march. I am not pregnant this month after 7-8 months of trying. I am debating just putting it off, even though who knows if it would happen anyways. I am not a huge drinker because I get horrible hangovers. I hate the idea of potential baby and addy being even further apart age wise, but don't know how much a few more months would change if it even happens before then.
I'm helping to make your procreation scheduling decision easier!
Punta Cana is not terrible. My food poisoning is.
The people here are great, but I'd have no desire to camp out at an all-inclusive. I like going out and exploring...which is what got me all this toilet time. LOL.
Post by sosaystara on Dec 24, 2012 19:19:31 GMT -5
I kinda get where you're coming from. H and I are planning on beginning to TTC in June-ish. I have a bachelorette party to attend in Vegas in July. I've thought about putting of TTCing, but the best time for me to have a baby in the spring (since I'm a teacher and would be able to run my maternity leave right into summer break).
I'm helping to make your procreation scheduling decision easier!
Punta Cana is not terrible. My food poisoning is.
The people here are great, but I'd have no desire to camp out at an all-inclusive. I like going out and exploring...which is what got me all this toilet time. LOL.
I think that you and I vacation very differently. I want to lay by a pool/beach and not much else. That may be my lack of sleep talking. I probably won't put it off, let's just hope that I am either past morning sickness at that point or too early to know if I get pregnant. If not I might have to tell DH to find a girlfriend to take with him. Lol
3 months pregnant wouldn't be a bad time to go to punta Cana if you aren't a big drinker. I did a beach vacation at 3 months, and I felt fine, and was totally able to enjoy myself. I wouldn't put off trying, you never know what's going to happen anyway!
I don't understand this mentality of changing your plans because of TTC. It may take you 2+ yrs to get pregnant...hell you may never get pregnant why would you NOT go on a free vacation?
I'm helping to make your procreation scheduling decision easier!
Punta Cana is not terrible. My food poisoning is.
The people here are great, but I'd have no desire to camp out at an all-inclusive. I like going out and exploring...which is what got me all this toilet time. LOL.
I think that you and I vacation very differently. I want to lay by a pool/beach and not much else. That may be my lack of sleep talking. I probably won't put it off, let's just hope that I am either past morning sickness at that point or too early to know if I get pregnant. If not I might have to tell DH to find a girlfriend to take with him. Lol
I don't understand this mentality of changing your plans because of TTC. It may take you 2+ yrs to get pregnant...hell you may never get pregnant why would you NOT go on a free vacation?
I never said I wasn't going on the trip?That wasn't an option, lol. I was debating on pausing TTC for a few months.
I think that you and I vacation very differently. I want to lay by a pool/beach and not much else. That may be my lack of sleep talking. I probably won't put it off, let's just hope that I am either past morning sickness at that point or too early to know if I get pregnant. If not I might have to tell DH to find a girlfriend to take with him. Lol
I don't understand this mentality of changing your plans because of TTC. It may take you 2+ yrs to get pregnant...hell you may never get pregnant why would you NOT go on a free vacation?
I never said I wasn't going on the trip?That wasn't an option, lol. I was debating on pausing TTC for a few months.
I feel like someone really wants me to acknowledge and/or understand that it may never happen, ever. Got it. Also knowing how difficult my first tri was the first time around, I know from experience that it pretty much puts my life on hold and it is silly not to consider the implications of thar. But I may never ever have to experience that again, ever.
I feel like someone really wants me to acknowledge and/or understand that it may never happen, ever. Got it. Also knowing how difficult my first tri was the first time around, I know from experience that it pretty much puts my life on hold and it is silly not to consider the implications of thar. But I may never ever have to experience that again, ever.
You want opinions right? That was why you posted? I don't know your prior pregnancy history since you didn't post it in the original thread so if you've had a bad first tri before than don't plan any up coming vacations/trips. Not trying to make it into something that its not.
I feel like someone really wants me to acknowledge and/or understand that it may never happen, ever. Got it. Also knowing how difficult my first tri was the first time around, I know from experience that it pretty much puts my life on hold and it is silly not to consider the implications of thar. But I may never ever have to experience that again, ever.
You want opinions right? That was why you posted? I don't know your prior pregnancy history since you didn't post it in the original thread so if you've had a bad first tri before than don't plan any up coming vacations/trips. Not trying to make it into something that its not.
Kristie, you should stop your whole life now that you are TTC.
You want opinions right? That was why you posted? I don't know your prior pregnancy history since you didn't post it in the original thread so if you've had a bad first tri before than don't plan any up coming vacations/trips. Not trying to make it into something that its not.
Kristie, you should stop your whole life now that you are TTC.
No it's the other way around. You have to stop TTC because of your life.
I feel like someone really wants me to acknowledge and/or understand that it may never happen, ever. Got it. Also knowing how difficult my first tri was the first time around, I know from experience that it pretty much puts my life on hold and it is silly not to consider the implications of thar. But I may never ever have to experience that again, ever.
You want opinions right? That was why you posted? I don't know your prior pregnancy history since you didn't post it in the original thread so if you've had a bad first tri before than don't plan any up coming vacations/trips. Not trying to make it into something that its not.
I wanted opinions from people if they would wait or not wait, not whether a random stranger thinks these types of questions are stupid in the first place. Lets not try and pretend you were offering your well intentioned opinion when pointing out repeatedly that this is a stupid question because it might never happen.