Are you not back in the saddle, or is it just not as good as before? It took a lot of time, and surprisingly it was H that needed to relax moreso than me.
That train has been running since about 8 weeks pp. I'm just annoyed at your ability to O by sneezing or some such nonsense. Sex is good, it just takes FOREVER.
Actually, if it makes you feel any better, I was not able to O at ALL in my third trimester. No matter how long we tried, no matter what we did. Just didn't happen.
It made me want to kill myself. And then the loooong dry spell post partum?