Am I a passive aggressive bitch for this?

[meatywienert]

I have a fb friend who is a 30yr college graduate who has a 3 month old baby. She apparently has never read anything about infant care. I cringe at every pic she puts on fb. I never say anything because I don't what to be that judgey mom. But in the last week she has put pic of her dd in her car seat in the car and the straps are too loose and the clip is positioned all the way down by where the crotch buckles. It has been like this in every pic. It is driving me crazy, but I don't what to call her out on it and look like a total bitch. I just linked a car seat safety page to fb feed that she will she. I'm pretty sure she will figure out it's meant towards her considering she has had so many pic of her dd in the car.
*I put her age and education in to show she is not a total moron who wouldn't know any better.

[Glitter Tits]

Maybe. But I did pretty much the exact same thing. I posted the RF vs FF car seat image in my newsfeed after I found out that my friend had her 7 mth old FFing.

Edited to fix a damn typo

[Deleted]

How well do you know her? I would send her a PM if she was somewhat of a close friend, if not then keep posting car seat shit lol. I'm super judgy about the car seat thing.

[Deleted]

I was going to say, I would send her a private message. I think it's only bitchy if you do it publicly where you are pointing out to everyone that she's doing something dangerous.
But, I also have been known to post passive aggressive things. Today I was this close to posting the definition of Memorial Day for all the people that didn't seem to understand the concept.

[meatywienert]

She takes offense really easily and I think she would get seriously pissed about a pm. I think she more likely to read it if she doesn't think it is completely aimed at her.

[meatywienert]

May 28, 2012 20:20:18 GMT -5 @amishlovah said:

I was going to say, I would send her a private message. I think it's only bitchy if you do it publicly where you are pointing out to everyone that she's doing something dangerous.
But, I also have been known to post passive aggressive things. Today I was this close to posting the definition of Memorial Day for all the people that didn't seem to understand the concept.

I was talking to dh about this and the difference between memorial day and veteran's day.

[statlerwaldorf]

I would probably pm her, but I'm a bitch...

[marriedfilingjoint]

Hugely side-eying FFing at 7 months.

I have a FB friend who has a million SIDS hazards in every pic of her newborn. Drives me crazy.