I'm reposting this under my actual name.

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You people that like middle of the night sex are freaks.

Dh was all pissed at me right before bed because he said I haven't been initiating (he claimed that him groping my boobs was a sign he wanted some. If that's the case then he wanted some in the car on the way to dinner with our kids in the back. He wanted some facing away from his Mom at the in-laws house, and he wanted some in an empty aisle in the grocery store...but I digress...).

So then we were woken up by a crazy thunderstorm at like 1:30 in the morning and I jumped on the opportunity since I was wide awake and I thought it would help me go back to sleep.

No bueno. I was all perky and laid in bed awake for two hours, then got to sleep an hour, then G woke up two hours early for a bottle.

Stellas doesn't do middle of the night sex. No. Dh has never tried to wake me up for it and I informed him that after last night he probably shoudln't. Blarg.

[mrsjuleshs]

I think a lot of men have the wrong definition of initiating or letting us know they want it lol. I was actually woken up a few weeks ago for some action. I thought that it was time to wake up. Till after it was over and I realized it was only 5am. WTF dude!

But I do wake him up for it all the time. Ok so that is like at midnight or 1am but still.

[flexie]

I get all huffy too if I'm woken up. I get huffier if it's my kids who wake me up.

[falada45]

I always think that middle-of-the-night sex sounds GREAT in theory. But apparently I get violent whenever DH has attempted it.

[wrathofkuus]

That doesn't even SOUND good to me.

[yellowcardigan]

I'm not into middle of the night sex either. I get way too cranky when my sleep is interrupted. My H knows he better step up before I fall asleep or wait until the next day.

[Alice]

May 11, 2012 16:05:53 GMT -5 falada45 said:

I always think that middle-of-the-night sex sounds GREAT in theory. But apparently I get violent whenever DH has attempted it.

Same here.

I guess my H has tried a couple times, and it didn't end well. I don't remember it at all! Ha.

Don't mess with my sleep, man.

[lemondrop]

I like middle of the night sex. And by middle of the night I mean 11:00.

[lemondrop]

May 11, 2012 16:13:49 GMT -5 cab1217 said:

It's probably my favorite kind of sex, TBH...
H is the only one allowed to initiate it thought, because if I do, he freaks the fuck out LOL

Dude, my H always falls asleep before me. In his sleep, he rolls over and starts touching me. That's how he initiates.

[annyong]

Ugh, no thank you. I don't even like morning sex because I enjoy my sleep too much.

[lemondrop]

May 11, 2012 16:20:32 GMT -5 cab1217 said:

May 11, 2012 16:17:25 GMT -5 lemondrop said:

Dude, my H always falls asleep before me. In his sleep, he rolls over and starts touching me. That's how he initiates.

For a LONG time, we could NOT figure out who was initiating late night sex. We would be asleep, then all over each other. I finally figured out it was him when one night I couldn't sleep, and tried, and almost got my ass beat. (Not really, but you get what I mean... hopefully.)

Haha, yeah. I get what you mean.

[bookmaven]

2 am is a good time for us. I have high praises for the 2 am sex.

[Chloride Kate]

I like it if by middle of the night sex, you mean in my dreams sex. I'd much rather sleep, thank you.

[stingsharkruns]

middle of the night sex almost always leads to a fight. I fall asleep fast, but I have trouble staying asleep..so waking me up..the house better be on fire; otherwise leave me alone.

[Deleted]

This makes me feel better. I remember Floyd and some others talking about doing this all the time!

[youbetcha]

I love it and it is some of our best ever. No idea why. My H starts it in his sleep usually!