I'm nervous...

[ct]

I've been working on an article about post-adoption depression for the connecticut moms blog I write for...well, it just so happens that huffington post parents is running a portrait of adoption series and has expressed that they might be interested in running my post when I finish it.

a) I'm nervous it will suck and they totally wont run it.

but moreso,

b) i'm nervous about being judged or having the wrong person see it and getting our license/homestudy questioned. I *think* that is pretty slim, but you never know. And I'd like to be particularly careful right now just in case a #4 is on its way to us...but, opportunities like this dont come around often and I do want to spread the word on a very under-discussed topic.

[Deleted]

I completely understand your reservation, what an awesome/scary place to be in. I would love to read such an article though, post adoption is usually portrayed as a happy and that's not always the case. Please, if it doesn't get picked up by HPP, post a link for us.

[hensmum]

Oh wow! Well if you want a test audience to see if you come across the way you intend to, I think I know where you can find a lovely group of ladies willing to help

I completely understand your nerves. It is a touchy subject, just like postpartum depression, but you are right - what a wonderful opportunity to possibly help/inspire/comfort other moms!

Honestly, I think you are a terrific blogger, with a knack for delving into the hard stuff with grace to spare. I think if anyone can write a great piece about post-adoption depression, it's you, mama.

[joyseattle]

Wow! What a great opportunity, but I totally get how scary that would be! I'm sure what you write will be great, that you'll strike the right tone, and that whether it's published or not you'll make it all work beautifully!

[ct]

you guys are so sweet, thank you <3 I think it may go live later this morning!

[eratmama]

I am so glad you are writing about this. I ditto hensmum--- if you want someone to read it and see if the tone is what you intended, i am around all day.

I definitely had a let down after the excitement of our wedding. When our adoption date could have been in february, i had a freak out about the loss of services. Such an important topic.

I dont think any caseworker worth their salt would question giving you another child. Hopefully, it will raise awareness for the need for more postt-adoption services.

[ct]

its up. Eeeek.

ctworkingmoms.com/2013/01/03/post-adoption-depression/

[2brides]

It is perfect. An awesome piece written by an awesome writer. YAY!

[bluedaisyus]

I second 2brides.

[ct]

You guys are seriously making my day.

and OMG - HuffPo wants it!!

[Duchess1]

Yay! Congratulations!

[bluedaisyus]

Jan 3, 2013 11:27:32 GMT -5 ct said:

You guys are seriously making my day.

and OMG - HuffPo wants it!!

Um, yeah. Of course they do. Because it is AWESOME, just like you.

[twotrue]

Ditto blue. That is a great piece!

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[seattlekari]

I'm with the other ladies. I LOVE reading your posts Elise. You are a joy to read. I understand about your nervousness, I'm sure I'd feel the same way. I hope you'll let HuffPo run with it, it's clear this topic needs much more discussion!

[eratmama]

Loved it
Perfect pitch.

[hensmum]

Great post, CT! As if we expected anything else

[joyseattle]

It's perfect and no surprise HuffPo wants it!

[mk]

Jan 3, 2013 15:17:45 GMT -5 joyseattle said:

It's perfect and no surprise HuffPo wants it!

This! Of course!

[viciouskittie]

I have always enjoyed reading your posts here & on The Bump, and your blog which I love reading. This is yet another wonderful piece that comes across as honest and definitely doesn't make me wonder why your children were blessed to have you (and DW) as their Mom(s). Thank you for sharing your experience.

[rikkiandjulie]

Rikki-iPhone

[ct]

thanks for all the support - it means so much to me!!