So I mentioned yesterday that a friend of mine told us all that he had cancer. Well, another friend of ours decided to set up "Tim G****** Appreciation Day!" What the fuck?? She invited 70+ people to come out on Wednesday night and show their support. He doesn't know about it yet, but he will be MORTIFIED. He will be pissed and embarrassed. I don't even think he's told the bulk of his friends and family yet.
It's too late to undo what she did, but it's not too late for damage control. She tends to be the queen of bad ideas and I thought she figured out that she needs to ask other people before doing shit like this. It's like a fucking cancer intervention. I don't even know what to say.
Eh weird. It's pretty inappropriate to not involve the person or the family before deciding to do something like this. Her heart was probably in the right place but she forgot no one wants to walk in a room to " Surprise, you have cancer!".