Downstairs Visits

[picksthemusic]

The reason I ask, is because, well... DH NEVER does, and I wish he would, at least enough to show me he cares about my enjoyment. I go there for him more than I think I should, especially since it's not reciprocated, and he LOVES it (duh).

Did anyone see the new Family Guy episode (the one from Stewie's point of view)? The end where he's put to bed and he dreams of Lois and Peter chopping down trees and then Lois ends up using a chainsaw? That was us last time. Made me kinda sad.

[emyinpink]

somewhere in between pretty much everytime and sometimes.....I was laughing so hard at that family guy episode, heh.

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I was laughing so hard at that family guy.

[niq]

I guess I should watch this family guy episode .

Picks have you tried just telling H outright that you enjoy it and want him to do it more? I'm trying to find that list of "a guys' guide to how we talk to ladies", it seems useful here ...

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H LOVES to.. and no complaints because that man is a CHAMP at it..buuuut I don't like it when I just get back from the gym and we have sex or if I haven't showered yet that day, etc.
He doesn't care.... But I'm like.. ewwww dirty.ew.no.
lol.. We both are very "giving" in the oral department.

[niq]

May 29, 2012 18:43:43 GMT -5 @jennuinne said:

So many pretty much everytime? Wow.

Early on we would each do it fairly often, me more than him. Now, I never want to and DH offers, but (1) I often don't feel attractive enough or something that I don't want him to, and (2) I think he only offers so that I'll reciprocate. I guess we need to spice things up...

Have you and H talked about #2? Is it part of why he offers? because some guys do like doing that...

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[sarack]

I'd tell him. Seriously. H goes down WAY more than I do.. I'm an asshole. I should do it more often.

[picksthemusic]

May 30, 2012 10:09:03 GMT -5 sarack said:

I'd tell him. Seriously. H goes down WAY more than I do.. I'm an asshole. I should do it more often.

I have told him, and it doesn't work. He just doesn't like to do it (I think he gets tired easily/doesn't feel like he knows what he's doing), and so it just doesn't happen. Sometimes he takes his time with foreplay, but that's as close as I get.

[jennlin]

almost every time...and most times, we do this (and/or reciprocate) instead of actually doing it. we definitely did this instead of sex during pregnancy.