SS - Did anyone get screwed out of a present?

[Deleted]

I don't think people are giving dowager the side eye. I asked how the situation came about and she gave me a reasonable, plausible response.

[Deleted]

Yeah Poppy you were one of the Defenders at some point.

You were one of the ones I alluded to when I say "judging by those posting" in response to "the tides have turned."

[wkatie]

I don't really know/haven't paid attention to a lot of the jlm drama, but I believe she is the one that said she brushes her teeth for like 2 hours a day. This other stuff may be odd, but that shit's CRAZY. lol.

[poppyseed]

Jan 7, 2013 16:13:22 GMT -5 saraandmichael said:

Jan 7, 2013 16:08:32 GMT -5 poppyseed said:

Me? When have I ever been on your ass? I've shown jlm support before, but never by being rude to other people.

I never said that you have been on my ass. I have, however, seen you get a bit psycho defender on other people that have called bullshit on jlm before. A handful of times, in fact.

Really? Huh. The only people I can think of that maybe I was like that to are people like ashbride and tots. I'm no mama or sprky. But, ok. Sorry!

[papie]

Jan 7, 2013 16:15:20 GMT -5 toledo said:

Jan 7, 2013 16:12:15 GMT -5 poppyseed said:

I'm pretty sure she said she shut the shower door too hard or something and it shattered and people here joked about the sex thing.

And jlm confirmed that they were right. Or, wanted people to believe that.

Yeah, I think she went haha and winked or something.

[Deleted]

Jan 7, 2013 16:14:29 GMT -5 KKD said:

Jan 7, 2013 16:07:26 GMT -5 @utahlove13 said:

Can we go back to whoever said they started to doubt JLM's story during a Philly G2g? Because that was never expanded on

It was laptop seeking confirmation that she expressed doubts way back in September. I remember commenting that I didn't bother getting worked up over anyone who comes around with so much drama right out of the gate. And that was before all THIS (waving hands around) drama even started.

ohh! Okay. I thought something else happened. Thanks!

[Deleted]

Lol that is true, you were NOT that caliber.

[sangria]

So.....do we think Jlm will come back to address any of this or no?

Sucker's bet?

[gozf]

Jan 7, 2013 16:16:27 GMT -5 wkatie said:

I don't really know/haven't paid attention to a lot of the jlm drama, but I believe she is the one that said she brushes her teeth for like 2 hours a day. This other stuff may be odd, but that shit's CRAZY. lol.

How is there time for tamales and night clubs with all this tooth-brushing???

[Deleted]

I beleive that DC didn't do anything wrong or weird.

I think the entire thing is getting incredibly odd and out of control with weirdness. Like whoa.

I'm leaning toward the fact that JLM is also the sister and she is a nutcase. Because that makes more sense than the rest.

[papie]

Jan 7, 2013 16:18:33 GMT -5 gozf said:

Jan 7, 2013 16:16:27 GMT -5 wkatie said:

I don't really know/haven't paid attention to a lot of the jlm drama, but I believe she is the one that said she brushes her teeth for like 2 hours a day. This other stuff may be odd, but that shit's CRAZY. lol.

How is there time for tamales and night clubs with all this tooth-brushing???

THE PLOT THICKENS.


lollollol

[smock]

I heard jlm brushes her teeth with tamales at night clubs!!!

[poppyseed]

Jan 7, 2013 16:16:24 GMT -5 ninjabridemom said:

Yeah Poppy you were one of the Defenders at some point.

You were one of the ones I alluded to when I say "judging by those posting" in response to "the tides have turned."

Really? I'm kind of embarrassed. I don't feel like I ever acted psycho about it, but I guess I did. Anyway, yes, at first, I believed jlm wholeheartedly. The more stuff she posted, the more I cringed because it just seemed like she knew the things she posted would stir the pot. But, I haven't questioned the validity of her stories until now. Some people have brought up very, very good points in this thread.

[mamasaurus]

Jan 7, 2013 14:35:08 GMT -5 @lazerus24 said:

I always wondered how JLM had so much support but was in the situation she was in for so long.

A dad who spends like 30k a year paying for childcare... A sister that will take in her children as her own... A pretty decent job/salary based on the pictures of the house she bought recently...

And yet, she was married to that jackass and apparently forced to have his child against her will.

If she has a dad who can drop 30k like its nothing every year... why wasn't she asking for his help/money to get out of her abusive marriage??

It does not add up.

Do you not understand how abusive relationships work? It has nothing to do with money most of the time and a lot to do with fear and control.

[Deleted]

I remember the toothbrush thing!

I thought that was slightly odd, but thought that maybe it was an OCD thing and shrugged it off.

[calledout]

Jan 7, 2013 16:12:15 GMT -5 poppyseed said:

I'm pretty sure she said she shut the shower door too hard or something and it shattered and people here joked about the sex thing. And, E isn't the one she gave to her sister.

If I recall correctly, she posted about the shower door, and everyone was all "tell us the truth...was the bf in there." And eventually she responded "okay, you got me. He totally was!!" And the crowd went wild: SQUEEEEEE!

As for E, J, whatever her name is - you get my point.


eta - or, what Toldeo and Papie said.

[poppyseed]

The dog owner was her boyfriend.

[fuckyourcouch]

Jan 7, 2013 16:19:54 GMT -5 smock said:

I heard jlm brushes her teeth with tamales at night clubs!!!

:Y:

[flex]

Jan 7, 2013 16:17:44 GMT -5 cjoy said:

I guess we can rule out her dog owning friends as the GIFTERS of the $400.

I think she had dog insurance. The $400 was her claim reimbursement.

[Deleted]

Also this thread is a major time suck.

[scotty]

I have a weird we are all jlm feeling and that there is no sister, but I watch Catfish, and it makes you paranoid.

[papie]

You people are killing me. I HAVE WORK TO DO.

[saraandmichael]

Jan 7, 2013 16:16:38 GMT -5 poppyseed said:

Jan 7, 2013 16:13:22 GMT -5 saraandmichael said:

I never said that you have been on my ass. I have, however, seen you get a bit psycho defender on other people that have called bullshit on jlm before. A handful of times, in fact.

Really? Huh. The only people I can think of that maybe I was like that to are people like ashbride and tots. I'm no mama or sprky. But, ok. Sorry!

well, I think you need to be a bit more self aware.

[angelaa73]

Jan 7, 2013 16:25:25 GMT -5 Lucy Honeychurch said:

It makes me sad and angry. Because it makes everyone less likely to believe someone else who may need support or has a hard time and it fucks it up for everyone in a community like this.

Abusive relationship or not, mental illness or not, it pisses me the fuck off. I hope she gets help and I hope she never fucking comes back here again.

Oh she'll be back.

sent from my auld lang syne, my dear

[poppyseed]

Jan 7, 2013 16:26:04 GMT -5 saraandmichael said:

Jan 7, 2013 16:16:38 GMT -5 poppyseed said:

Really? Huh. The only people I can think of that maybe I was like that to are people like ashbride and tots. I'm no mama or sprky. But, ok. Sorry!

well, I think you need to be a bit more self aware.

Noted.

[jayded]

Jan 7, 2013 16:21:20 GMT -5 Que? said:

I believe everything DC said. I think JLM is a very sick individual and I'm glad her child is in someone else's care.

This whole thread makes me very, very sad.

This is where I am, I found myself hoping her posts were bs.

[Jermys]

Jan 7, 2013 16:06:49 GMT -5 saraandmichael said:

I try really hard to stay out of these things, but I am kind of cranky about the attitude being shifted toward dowager here.

I don't want to get all sprky and cbwm up in here (or get mama or poppyseed on my ass), but there is a history of behavior that warranted real life concern at some point. And dowager, in true fashion, has kept the confidence and privacy of someone that probably doesn't deserve it right now.

Correct.

Now back to reading.

[motzie]

Jan 7, 2013 16:22:06 GMT -5 @amoosed said:

Also this thread is a major suck.

I fixed that for you.

[eddy]

This shit is cray.

[karmasabiotch]

I think it's too late for her to come back unless she starts over with a new name and identity. This is too big of a day in nest history.