DC - I don't think any of this is weird from your side - just the sisters.
Really? Cause I do.
I don't think it is weird that DC accepted a call from the sister. I think DC, like many people on this board, think/thought JLM was telling the truth and was looking out for a fellow nestie.
I think it is super fucking weird that the sister called and discussed JLM's problems and life with a complete stranger.
FB messaging someone is one thing. A phone call and accusations about her sister to a stranger are another.
DC only did the thing that I think is least strange.
But really, the entire situation is so effed up anyone who is involved is starting to get the side-eye from me.
Post by saraandmichael on Jan 7, 2013 16:06:49 GMT -5
I try really hard to stay out of these things, but I am kind of cranky about the attitude being shifted toward dowager here.
I don't want to get all sprky and cbwm up in here (or get mama or poppyseed on my ass), but there is a history of behavior that warranted real life concern at some point. And dowager, in true fashion, has kept the confidence and privacy of someone that probably doesn't deserve it right now.
Sorry to make it sound more dramatic, but, she was responsible for the dog for a night or two, it got out, and was killed by a car. I expressed shock, because I thought that it was irresponsible and was met by a wtf from her. I let it go, as I'd read she was dealing with trauma and was a little out of it, but I still thought that it was pretty irresponsible. The kid stuff I kept mum about only because of the alleged circumstances that led to her choice.
I try really hard to stay out of these things, but I am kind of cranky about the attitude being shifted toward dowager here.
I don't want to get all sprky and cbwm up in here (or get mama or poppyseed on my ass), but there is a history of behavior that warranted real life concern at some point. And dowager, in true fashion, has kept the confidence and privacy of someone that probably doesn't deserve it right now.
Me? When have I ever been on your ass? I've shown jlm support before, but never by being rude to other people.
I think I remember JLM saying some pretty serious things about the worthiness of her life and other scary stuff. If that is what DC was taking seriously I don't blame her.
Can I join in? The day I suspected jlm was b.s. was the time that she posted about having crazy shower sex that resulted in breaking her shower door. And then, a few days later "revealed" that she gave E to her sister (a few days ago). And I couldn't help but think it was odd that she would have been living it up in the shower right around the time she was giving her child away...or was she?!?
Roughly 600 posts too late, but I wanted to play. And thank you all for a truly enjoyable day!
Can I join in? The day I suspected jlm was b.s. was the time that she posted about having crazy shower sex that resulted in breaking her shower door. And then, a few days later "revealed" that she gave E to her sister (a few days ago). And I couldn't help but think it was odd that she would have been living it up in the shower right around the time she was giving her child away...or was she?!?
Roughly 600 posts too late, but I wanted to play. And thank you all for a truly enjoyable day!
I'm pretty sure she said she shut the shower door too hard or something and it shattered and people here joked about the sex thing. And, E isn't the one she gave to her sister.
Sorry to make it sound more dramatic, but, she was responsible for the dog for a night or two, it got out, and was killed by a car. I expressed shock, because I thought that it was irresponsible and was met by a wtf from her. I let it go, as I'd read she was dealing with trauma and was a little out of it, but I still thought that it was pretty irresponsible. The kid stuff I kept mum about only because of the alleged circumstances that led to her choice.
This is pretty much where I've been. Right next to you, all along.
I get that the dog thing was an unfortunate accident. But it was most certainly her fault. I was surprised at how willing people were to just give her a pass, and the subsequent annoyance people expressed over the dog's owner being pissed about it.
I read the puppy thread; being sleepy at 4am and not bothering to hunt down the dog's leash is a bullshit excuse. She was there to DOG SIT. As in, to take care of the dog. She took the easy way out, let the dog out leash free, the dog gets hit by a car.
Even if the dog makes a mess in the house, it would be better than her ignoring the fact that the dog needed a leash.
That's irresponsible and if I were the owners, I'd be pissed as hell that the person who was taking care of my dog, couldn't give enough fucks to look for the dog leash.
And that's the problem with JLM, she just cannot bother to give enough fucks with anything.
The puppy thing was just horrendous and I really, really hope that was fake. OMG. I forgot that was her.
I agree, people need to lay off DC. If she is being duped, she's being duped -- though like Elle I very much trust her judgment on these things. We wouldn't trust her w the SS stuff if she had poor judgment.
I try really hard to stay out of these things, but I am kind of cranky about the attitude being shifted toward dowager here.
I don't want to get all sprky and cbwm up in here (or get mama or poppyseed on my ass), but there is a history of behavior that warranted real life concern at some point. And dowager, in true fashion, has kept the confidence and privacy of someone that probably doesn't deserve it right now.
Me? When have I ever been on your ass? I've shown jlm support before, but never by being rude to other people.
I never said that you have been on my ass. I have, however, seen you get a bit psycho defender on other people that have called bullshit on jlm before. A handful of times, in fact.
Can we go back to whoever said they started to doubt JLM's story during a Philly G2g? Because that was never expanded on
It was laptop seeking confirmation that she expressed doubts way back in September. I remember commenting that I didn't bother getting worked up over anyone who comes around with so much drama right out of the gate. And that was before all THIS (*waving hands around*) drama even started.
Can I join in? The day I suspected jlm was b.s. was the time that she posted about having crazy shower sex that resulted in breaking her shower door. And then, a few days later "revealed" that she gave E to her sister (a few days ago). And I couldn't help but think it was odd that she would have been living it up in the shower right around the time she was giving her child away...or was she?!?
Roughly 600 posts too late, but I wanted to play. And thank you all for a truly enjoyable day!
You're a horrible lurker. I have stayed out of 99% of this and know that J was given to the sister. She was shutting the shower door and it shattered. She then joked about shower sex when someone brought it up.
I try really hard to stay out of these things, but I am kind of cranky about the attitude being shifted toward dowager here.
I don't want to get all sprky and cbwm up in here (or get mama or poppyseed on my ass), but there is a history of behavior that warranted real life concern at some point. And dowager, in true fashion, has kept the confidence and privacy of someone that probably doesn't deserve it right now.
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word. DC is the last person we need to side-eye right now.