Post by orriskitten on Jan 9, 2013 14:04:58 GMT -5
I don't want to hijack the other thread, but want to make sure people know I'm happy to discuss. I am a tad scared of getting flamed, so take it easy on me!
I worked for a few months as a professional dominatrix in a dungeon. It was 100% legal since no sex happened (to my knowledge. There are always rumors). No, I am not a dominatrix in my personal life.
I am happy to answer any questions since I know that at least a few if you are dieing to know more.
This is awesome! Annnnd I don't blame you a bit, why the hell not?! I bet it was great money and not too much work for you right? Just hang around and yell at dudes all day, shit yeah I would do that.
What was your creepiest encounter? Funniest encounter? I want to hear stories now haha
I obviously missed another post. But, holy WOW! No judging, but that is a crazy job! What did you wear? And do? Oh so many questions!
Lots of corsets, fancy stockings and high heels! I loved the clothes so much! the placei worked also specialized in medical play and had 3 rooms set up like exam rooms, so we had a range of nurse outfits, from legit nurses scrubs to slutty Halloween type outfits, depending on the client.
We did a lot lol anything from light spanking to full body bondage to needle play (only done by those certified to do piercings).
This is awesome! Annnnd I don't blame you a bit, why the hell not?! I bet it was great money and not too much work for you right? Just hang around and yell at dudes all day, shit yeah I would do that.
What was your creepiest encounter? Funniest encounter? I want to hear stories now haha
Creepiest, I'll share a link when at the computer. There is a guy who hits all the dungeons who we called mental dental., he had a tooth fetish and wanted an exam situation he would interview you and ask you if you had braces, a cavity, dental experience, etc. I never got him, but did interview with him a few times.
Funniest was a guy who was into humiliation and was really hot. And he wanted to be told he had a small Dick. Which he didn't. I did that session with another girl halfway through (my nurse lol) and she came in and he told her what he wanted to hear and the look on her face was the funniest thing ever!
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Was there someone watching in case it got out of hand, or some type of bouncer type person?
There was a check in system and a walkie talkie set up. We always had the option to leave if anything ever went wrong and you don't want to mess with a staff of professional abusers lol. Our manager who screened everyone who came in was also really bad ass.
Not. At. All! Those books upset me so much that I don't always have adequate words. 50 shades is to bdsm like rape is to sex. Quite literally. Ana never consents. In the bdsm world this is seen as rape. To glorify it as a good reality and sell millions of books... It makes me sick.
But really.. was there jizz everywhere? Do guys come from that kind of stuff? This is so freaking interesting.
It was messy. We wore gloves at all times and would clean everything, whether it was used or not. Most guys would jizz, but not all. Most of what was messy was sweat. The rooms were all very warm. There were showers for the clients and septate for us that were off limits. We were all really careful with cleaning and would also help each other to clean.
Not. At. All! Those books upset me so much that I don't always have adequate words. 50 shades is to bdsm like rape is to sex. Quite literally. Ana never consents. In the bdsm world this is seen as rape. To glorify it as a good reality and sell millions of books... It makes me sick.
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I've ben wondering about this! I read the first 2 from the library and wondered how accurate they are but didn't have anyone to ask. I didn't think they were correct. While they are entertaining I don't think they desereve all the attention they've gotten. If I don't stop now I'm going to hijack this thread....
I do think she will when the time is right. I have many friends in the lifestyle, including myself to a degree, and do not want her to think being into kink is a bad thing. There is a lot of misinformation out there, just like sex, and I want to make sure she is educated and making smart choices. There can be some very dangerous stuff involved and it has to be respected in that sense.
Tangent time... I ended up quitting for 2 reasons. I started feeling badly about my body image. Before you get a session, each domme goes in and interviews with the guy to see what they want and what your are willing to do. I didn't get picked a whole lot. I wasn't fat enough for the guys who wanted bigger girls and wasn't skinny enough for those who didn't want big girls. I also wasn't exotic looking. It started to make me feel bad, which I'm hind sight is stupid.
The second reason was because it took away from some of the personal experiences I had and will probably have. Its like watching porn too much- do that and it can make sex seem strange and make you feel like none of it has value. I found that dangerous to me in practicing parts of things personally since I mostly tend to be submissive. That is a very deep and detailed specification, though, and not nearly as interesting as the job. I happily walked and have great stories!
Fascinating, all of it. Thanks for being so open about all of this.
Was the pay amazing? I am not expecting a number of course, but just in general?
It was $150/hr if I remember correctly and extra for certain acts.
We had a guy who was into Roman showers (puke play) and a girl who would do it. Not sure exactly how much she got, but she certainly didn't enjoy it so I'd assume the money was just that good.
With all that man sweat, did it smell like a locker room?
Actually not at all! We cleaned a lot, had air freshener and cleaned a lot. Did I mention we cleaned constantly? Lol it actually always smelled good there.