When I'm laying on my deathbed, I want to look back and know that 1) I ENJOYED my life and didn't just live it, 2) I brought joy, comfort and laughter to Jen and our kids, and 3) I traveled and learned and tried new things until the end of my days.
On my actual "bucket list" which was started when I was 21 and is written in no particular order, the first three are 1) Learn to make cheese 2) Learn to make beer 3) Visit all 50 states (I'm up to 43 or something)
1. Hold my grandchildren, at least one. Both my parents died before ever meeting a grandchild. It makes me really anxious.
2. Learn to sew. My dad wouldn't allow me to take any sort of home economics class. I was in all AP. Now I am a stay at home mom and never uses a single bio/english/spanish/history fact but dreams of sewing curtains but has no idea how to work a sewing machine. I've tried. It's daunting, they go so fast!
3. Own a small 2 bedroom summer cottage on the beach and watch my babies play in the sand, sea, and sun.
ETA: fuck sewing curtains. I want to go to Thailand! What was I thinking? Sewing? I need to get out more.
1. Balance being a momma and wife with my professional and/or academic pursuits 2. Travel - ideally alternating domestically and internationally every other/third year 3. Continually do things that really push me outside of my comfort zone every year (examples include things such as riding on a helicopter and hot air balloon, improving my limited foreign language skills--specifically Spanish and French, but also Mandarin and/or Japanese once our kids start learning them, walking/running a 5k/10k+ race, completing DIY home projects, etc)
Post by thiswillbe on Jan 14, 2013 10:26:14 GMT -5
1. My #1 thing had to do with being less stressed and having a good marriage, but I am pleased to say I mentioned it to S and it might happen *this year*! ::fingerscrossed::
2. Travel overseas not for work. I'd really love to do a long, slow vacation in Italy.
3. Give birth vaginally. Okay, I know that in addition to that being totally TMI, it's not something I would ever have 100% control over, and sooooooo much would have to fall into place to even get to a place where that's a possibility, but oh well. We can have crazy, far-fetched wishes on our bucket lists, right?