So, would you call the cops?

[eav2c]

The maintence guy at my dad's complex called today and said that some guy was driving my dad's car. This is obviously extremely infuriating. :@ Gold Digger has given out my dads keys to a random dude and my dad doesn't believe it. My husband said to me tonight that he can't believe that I haven't called the cops to get her kicked out (I am on the lease as a tenant still). Would you call and say she is living there, shouldn't be, and my dad has been in the hospital? I feel like since my dad has knowingly allowed her to live there that I can't just get her kicked out and I don't want to create drama with my dad so he will be compliant with me (he has let it be known that he will choose Gold Digger over us). However, the maintence guy told me that she was evicted and banned from the complex a few months back and if my dad gets caught with her living there he will be evicted. That could be a good thing and save me some trouble trying to break his lease.........but, I don't know if it's a good idea. DH is kind of making me feel bad but I feel like there are laws that would block her from getting kicked out anyway, no? Like, wouldn't she have to have X amount of days to get out?

[monkeybabe]

If you think eviction would make your life easier, I'd let slip to management that GD is living there.

[eav2c]

Jan 14, 2013 22:46:33 GMT -5 monkeybabe said:

If you think eviction would make your life easier, I'd let slip to management that GD is living there.

I just called and left a message with the maintenance guy. Him and my dad are friends and the guy lives in the complex too and is kind of like the all seeing and knowing God of the complex. I really hate to get my dad evicted too but it might be the only way of ridding her. I'm still hopeful that PA Protective Services will catch her doing something but I'm not feeling hopeful ATM. I feel like I need to act quickly because my dad might be getting out of rehab soon as apparently insurance has only covered him through Wednesday though they will reassess tomorrow/Wednesday morning.

[Deleted]

Anonymous call =\= you. Dad wouldn't need to know, in other words. That way you can deal with it without upsetting him. If she was previously evicted, there could be anyone who would call and rat her out.

[eav2c]

Jan 14, 2013 22:52:18 GMT -5 hoodyhoo said:

Anonymous call =\= you. Dad wouldn't need to know, in other words. That way you can deal with it without upsetting him. If she was previously evicted, there could be anyone who would call and rat her out.

True. So true. I guess my only thing is once I do this there is a large chance of my dad getting kicked out which is great in many respects and will make it easier to get him somewhere safe. I'm just scared because we don't know 100% that we can afford a place for him. He can move in though temporarily but I don't know that we will be able to afford a flight for him and I this month (I'd have to fly up there and fly him down). I'm just trying to think as logically as possible but my H is a very logical person compared to me so I guess I should call.

[charlielove]

If you think that's best for your dad, then let management know. I think when they evict they are allowed 30 days to leave (at least here). I would also report your dad's vehicle stolen if it's not back at the complex where it should be.

[gmoneymommy]

Jan 14, 2013 22:57:12 GMT -5 charlielove said:

If you think that's best for your dad, then let management know. I think when they evict they are allowed 30 days to leave (at least here). I would also report your dad's vehicle stolen if it's not back at the complex where it should be.

Yup! I agree.

[tuck]

Jan 15, 2013 0:45:39 GMT -5 gmoneymommy said:

Jan 14, 2013 22:57:12 GMT -5 charlielove said:

If you think that's best for your dad, then let management know. I think when they evict they are allowed 30 days to leave (at least here). I would also report your dad's vehicle stolen if it's not back at the complex where it should be.

Yup! I agree.

Me too.

[Regina Philange]

Holy shit. So sorry Eav. I would call and let management know and not be anonymous. I understand not wanting to start shit with your dad though. How some people can take such advantage is complete bullshit.

[Deleted]

Report your father's vehicle stolen and let them know the likely thief is holed up in his house while he is in the hospital. They will be charged with auto theft, trespassing and most likely cruelty to the infirmed for doing this while he is in the hospital.

[mamasaurus]

Yeah, report it (the car) as stolen. For all you know, it could have been.

[eav2c]

So, I've gotten loads more information pertaining to this bitch and it is SICKENING. I'm waiting for a call back from the leasing manager at my dad's complex. I am going to try and get him evicted. It is truly for his best interest. I hate that it's come to this but then my dad will have to come here. He doesn't want to believe this woman is doing anything bad. *i* am a liar, apparently, and am letting everyone hype me up. Yeah, no. It's almost good I'm not there because then I might be in jail right now.

[lolaburns]

There are sick people that look for people to take advantage, like your dad. What you are describing is pretty much the exact same scenario we went through with my Grandfather. Some meth addict crack whore bitch got her nails into him with her sob stories. She siphoned thousands and thousands of dollars from him. WE were the liars. It was the most emotionally drained and frustrating thing ever.


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