Post by Llama in Mules on May 31, 2012 14:22:47 GMT -5
Purchases like that don't go on the joint card that gets paid with the joint account. He doesn't like when I buy myself things with my money, he thinks I should be saving that.
We just settled into me doing the bills and money stuff. For one, DH is terrible at math and two, he is gone so much that if her were responsible we would be SOL.
Post by Llama in Mules on May 31, 2012 20:46:16 GMT -5
We went back and forth about it, growing up, my dad did all the $ stuff so I wanted him to do it, his mother did all the $ stuff so he wanted me to do it... we went back and forth with 'it's the man's job'/'it's the woman's job'. He claims he can out-argue people because he's a lawyer, but I can out-bitch him.
I do some bills and h does others. He doesnt harass me at all about anything I buy, but something tells me he would notice if I purchased a Hermes bag...
Post by EloiseWeenie on Jun 1, 2012 6:32:31 GMT -5
My husband does all of our finances, but he's a bank manager. He spends hours every month pouring over our budget spreadsheet. He's always watching, LOL.