It's confirmed.

[silva]

Ob said that I have the choice of waiting and misscarrying naturally but it's just a question of when or scheduling a dnc. 

I'm in a bind in that the ob I chose I am not comfortable in having him do the procedure.  Two people I know had him and had very negative experiences with him. 

I was told a miscarriage expect a fair amount of bleeding and cramping. 

I don't know what to do. I'm leaning the dnc but I just dread the thought.

[bleubook]

No advice, just hugs.
I'm sorry

[Deleted]

oh no. I am so sorry

[walterismydog]

I have no advice, but I am so very sorry you are going through this. (((silva)))

[Waffles]

I'm very sorry. I have no advice but here's a hug!

[softspot]

I'm so sorry. ((Hugs))

If you aren't comfortable with that doctor doing the procedure then get a referral to one you do feel comfortable with. A miscarriage is hard enough without adding in you not being comfortable with your provider.

[thebamker]

I'm sorry

[winston]

(((hugs))) I'm so, so sorry.

I think if you opt for a D&C it's really important that you trust your doctor, because there can be some complications. Is there any chance you could see another doctor for this? Does anyone you know have a 'good' experience with their D&C?

I went for the surgery both times it was up to me because I didn't know if I could emotionally handle physically miscarrying in my home, if that was something I could opt out of, but a lot of people feel more comfortable minimizing the risks with the loss and go this way.

I'm just so sorry. I wish that this hadn't happened and that you didn't need to make this choice. (((hugs)))

[lightbulbsun]

I'm sorry silva.

[Deleted]

No advice, just hugs ((Silva))

[BieberMyBalls]

I'm really sorry you're going through this

[whitemerlot]

I'm sorry. I don't post on this board often, but wanted to tell you to do what feels right. If you want to do the D&C, find someone you are comfortable working with. I had two natural miscarriages. One was measuring 8 1/2 weeks and the other was a twin m/c with similar measurements on one and smaller second fetus. I'm happy to answer any questions about it.

Huge hugs to you.

[psychmom]

Big big hugs. Do whatever you feel comfortable with.

[pantsparty]

I am so sorry

[revolution]

That is a shitty decision to have to make.

Do what you feel is right for you. If you choose D&C, make sure you have a dr you trust completely.

hugs for you

[ginandjucie24]

I am sorry . I would find a new OB who you will comfortable with.

[Deleted]

I am so sorry.

[annyong]

I'm so sorry. Big hugs.

[murdock]

I'm so so sorry.

[mamasaurus]

I'm sorry. That's an awful choice to have to make.

[bab]

I'm so sorry

[Ruby Gloom]

I'm so sorry, Silva. ((Hugs))

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry

[Deleted]

((Hugs)) I'm so, so sorry.


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[tdk2]

Oh, Silva, I'm so sorry :*(

[sonrisa]

I'm so sorry, silva. Big hugs.

[Cricket0619]

I'm very sorry.

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[KKD]

I'm so, so sorry, silva. YGPM.

[winelady]

I am so sorry.

[shostakovich]

So sorry, silva.