I would have opted for the d&c if given a choice, just to get it over with. My friend had one at 12weeks and didn't even bleed afterwards. I, on the other hand, was given misoprostol, which took forever to really work, and I was still bleeding "chunks" a month later.
Ob said that I have the choice of waiting and misscarrying naturally but it's just a question of when or scheduling a dnc.
I'm in a bind in that the ob I chose I am not comfortable in having him do the procedure. Two people I know had him and had very negative experiences with him.
I was told a miscarriage expect a fair amount of bleeding and cramping.
I don't know what to do. I'm leaning the dnc but I just dread the thought.
Yeah, the bleeding is a fair amount and the cramping (for me it was worse after the sac had been passed) was pretty bad. But, I am happy I did not need a d&c.