CBH question

[ilovecandy]

When you (hopefully) get pregnant are you going to find out the sex or no?

[ilovecandy]

We have talked about not finding out, I think if H has to be gone around the birth though we will probably find out before he leave hopefully.

[G22]

Absolutely. I'm slightly impatient about things and there's no way I could wait that long. H agrees, thank goodness we are on the same page.

[KaraOrNot]

It is funny, because I hate surprises (as in, I buy all my own gifts because I don't want to be surprised), but I really don't want to know the sex. Now, lets see if I can actually hold out for 9 months!

[Deleted]

Definitely, I'm the most impatient person on the planet!

[degal99]

Oh, yes, we will know the sex. I just want to know what to call it since we have names picked out!

[mae141]

Absolutely. I am a planner. I need to plan name and nursery and first outfit and what my future child's wedding will be like. I didn't know it was a thing to not find out until TN.

[bronxgirl]

Yes. I want to know ASAP. I like to know what to expect.

[jewel]

Definitely - I like to know everything sooner, rather than later

[Cheesecake]

Unsure. I want to be team green, but DH might really want to know. We will definitely not be telling others though, if we would find out...

Sent from my phone, please disregard typos!

[changedname]

I was actually thinking about this yesterday. I have always said yes absolutely. I threw a shower for a team greener and it was so much harder than if she had found out the sex. It would also have been easier to buy her bits and pieces along the way. My SIL was team green and that has kind of changed my mind - it was way more exciting when she went into labour etc because we didn't know if she would be leaving with a boy or girl.

That said, I might find out for #1 and be team green for #2 just so I get the surprise once.

[sonrisa]

We will have CVS around 11 weeks and should know about genetic info (including sex and viability) by 13 or so weeks. We'll still decorate gender neutral because that is our style.

[sonrisa]

Jan 25, 2013 8:23:48 GMT -5 changedname said:

it was way more exciting when she went into labour etc because we didn't know if she would be leaving with a boy or girl.

lol.  If you do find out, don't worry. There is still plenty of uncertainty going into labor. 

[changedname]

Jan 25, 2013 16:12:55 GMT -5 sonrisa said:

Jan 25, 2013 8:23:48 GMT -5 changedname said:

it was way more exciting when she went into labour etc because we didn't know if she would be leaving with a boy or girl.

lol.  If you do find out, don't worry. There is still plenty of uncertainty going into labor. 

haha I'm sure. And I'm sure we won't give a crap how "exciting" it is for everyone else!

[berbles]

Jan 25, 2013 9:48:12 GMT -5 @starflower22 said:

Yes I will find out ASAP. Though I plan to keep the nursery very neutral regardless of the sex. I mainly want to find out for plenty of time to think of a name!

This, 100%.