IDK. I'd hope so. I'd want H to marry again if I died, I wouldn't want him to be lonely. I'd have a really hard time finding someone that would put up with my shit the way H has. H set the bar pretty high.
I think I'd just live the single life for a long while first. Being single was also fun!
I'm widowed and I'm young, and I have no desire to date or marry again. Losing someone hurts so badly and, given that women generally outlive men, I never want to go through it again---not when I'm 37, or 57, or 97.
That said, you can never say never and you never know what life will hold. So I don't want to and I'll work to make my life complete without someone, but I reserve the right to change my mind someday too.
Post by CheshireGrin on Jan 24, 2013 23:38:48 GMT -5
I'm not even convinced I want to marry BF. I kind of like just living in sin.
That being in said, if anything were to happen to him, I'd like to think that I would end up living in sin with someone else eventually. I'm not sure I would ever find again what I have with him though.
Also, it might depend on how old I was when this hypothetical demise occured.
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
if someone great came along, sure. mh and i have agreed we want the other to have as full a life as possible after the other dies. both of us have agreed we're lazy fucks who wouldn't want to make the effort to date even after we're not so sad anymore.
anecdote: my mom said never after being widowed quite young. she's been married three times. widowed twice. i wouldn't be surprised if she got married again.