Second Crap Friday - F'em

[cemacmil]

Ok so I posted on TN last weekend vaugely about getting a "closure" email back from old BF (can't really use ex yet, sounds weird) post divorce. Since we are on a new board - even though I said I wouldn't say anything - he had an actual mental breakdown, sounding the "S" word, but saying he was getting help. That was a super crap Friday/day. Haven't heard from him since then, last Friday.

Today - DD has a freakout in Target to the point that other mom's are feeling bad for me - not a tantrum just really upset I had no clue why, I started my period well yesterday due to missing pills so hormonal wreck, got the "have a nice weekend" from office dude so I guess we just talk during random weekdays at work type message right after getting DD back in the car, had to keep from crying with her on the way home, got home gave DD dinner, she started crying again in the bath, no real temp, took me over an hour to get a diaper on her, then she just puked all over the both of us after her night bottle, had to get her changed again, spilled the gallon of water while re-filling the humidifer, finally got her to bed after some medicine (I am thinking/hoping teething), and now really don't feel like cleaning, laundry, coupon cutting, or making a grocery list!

She just started up again - back in a bit. Crap.

[doriswe]

((hugs)) Hopefully she'll start feeling better soon!

[cemacmil]

Then I just get this gem text from XH who just the other week asked if visitation "was 12-5 in the 8x10" (referring to her playroom at my folks:

"(1/3) Can u email me the updated pediatrician and doctor list for Sarah. I contacted her pediatrician two weeks ago and never received anything back. Btw u ca (2/3) n always speak with me about things concerning our daughter. Ur not the only one in a less than desirable position concerning Sarah. Anyhow im always he (3/3) re for you guys. Happy Mothers Day and tell her I love her."

What?!

[turtle1120]

Hugs to you. And I hope your DD is just having an off day and feels better tomorrow. Regarding her dad - at least he cares enough to call her pedi. I'm 99.9% sure that my DDs dad has never spoken to her pedi. Hell, he probably has no clue who her pedi even is despite the fact that I've given him the info.

[cemacmil]

May 11, 2012 20:45:37 GMT -5 turtle1120 said:

Hugs to you. And I hope your DD is just having an off day and feels better tomorrow. Regarding her dad - at least he cares enough to call her pedi. I'm 99.9% sure that my DDs dad has never spoken to her pedi. Hell, he probably has no clue who her pedi even is despite the fact that I've given him the info.

He hasn't. He just learned (through my own sister I believe from last week) that I will be eventually going for full legal, I already have full physical. He has NEVER asked and only replied once or twice including pregnancy about her health. I emailed him back "M- Sarah is doing well with everything and thriving in her environment. I will be sure to pass on your well wishes, concern, and love to DD." Then put the info he wanted. Here was his reply to me::

Thank you N (my dad's name?). Good graces to u as well.

So still an ass trying to get me on my mother's day weekend. Document, file, move on.

[explorer2001]

Document, file, move on.
This is exactly right. Hugs. I hope you DD feels better

[vikingqueen]

Hope your DD feels better and that hopefully your weekend gets better. Sounds like you had a touch day yesterday