Yes, on the phone with her. They have been having problems but trying to work it out. who wouldn't be with a newborn, nursing school, and a deployment, but what the fuck. This is not real life. I am so glad I haven't talked to her yet because I swear I have just been staring at a wall for the last two hours since I heard. I can not get my brain around this.
Oh, god. I'm feel so, so, so awful for that woman and her children. On the phone with her makes it so much worse and with an 8 week old baby. Dear lord. I don't know what the appropriate thing to do/say to a friend in that situation would be. I'm so sorry.