Post by discogranny on Feb 11, 2013 9:56:05 GMT -5
I don't normally do a physical thing but generally something that makes me a better/nicer person. This time I am going to let this Lenten season be a season of getting myself back. I would like to use the next 40-ish days to basically not say no to plans and just really enjoy myself.
The last two years have been such a weird time for me as I feel like I have really lost a large portion of myself. My DH calls it my "FirstName sparkle." I am generally a very caring, outgoing, fun person but the constant "of course she got pregnant immediately!", "oh, I'm not drinking tonight" or "wow, I am not sure about planning a vacation that far in advance" because I am thinking about the "what if" of being pregnant/being mid-treatment cycle, etc. has really worn on me. I feel like the Lenten season lends itself to getting rid of these feelings of worry, guilt, jealousy and bitterness nicely.
Post by trufflefries on Feb 11, 2013 13:02:02 GMT -5
I'm not Catholic but I still like the idea of sacrificing something so I'm going to be giving up eating out. I need to lose weight anyway and DH is doing a weight loss challenge at work so hopefully that will help keep me disciplined. Last year I tried to give up cursing...didn't go so well.
I don't normally do a physical thing but generally something that makes me a better/nicer person. This time I am going to let this Lenten season be a season of getting myself back. I would like to use the next 40-ish days to basically not say no to plans and just really enjoy myself.
The last two years have been such a weird time for me as I feel like I have really lost a large portion of myself. My DH calls it my "FirstName sparkle." I am generally a very caring, outgoing, fun person but the constant "of course she got pregnant immediately!", "oh, I'm not drinking tonight" or "wow, I am not sure about planning a vacation that far in advance" because I am thinking about the "what if" of being pregnant/being mid-treatment cycle, etc. has really worn on me. I feel like the Lenten season lends itself to getting rid of these feelings of worry, guilt, jealousy and bitterness nicely.
That's a really nice idea and good for you for recognizing the toll IF takes. After all you have been through recently , you definitely deserve to take some time.
I'm not Catholic but I still like the idea of sacrificing something so I'm going to be giving up eating out. I need to lose weight anyway and DH is doing a weight loss challenge at work so hopefully that will help keep me disciplined. Last year I tried to give up cursing...didn't go so well.
I'm not Catholic either, but I like to take the opportunity to make some sort of positive change in my life. One year I gave up "being lazy" which for me meant working out at least 3 times per week.
Disco - I can definitely relate. I think your Lent plan is beautiful.