Is it ok if I post over here?

[HoneySpider]

Hi guys, I'm not sure if/how I fit in over here as opposed to regular GP, but I'm hoping it's ok to post over here a little bit?

It's been a few months since I've been trying to GP so I don't know if you know/remember my story but the short version is this: got pregnant in October, had a very difficult/stressful/painful/emotional pregnancy that resulted in a D&E last week at 20 weeks. Our baby girl had a rare chromosome mutation that caused a lot of defects and also major heart issues that would have meant an extremely low quality of life.

We can't/won't be TTC for a few months but this journey started for us over a year ago and it's a little deflating to be right back to where we were with no baby. I know my issues are minor compared to what so many of you are going through but I hope it's ok for me to chat with you guys. 

[changedname]

Hi Honey. Of course you are welcome here. I was noelcallum on MMM (changed my name with the board update) and we started ttc the same time. I'm really sorry about everything that has happened to you.

[Jalapeñomel]

I'm so sorry for your loss. ((hugs))

[Cheesecake]

Oh my goodness Honey, I hadn't heard about you losing your baby. That makes me so so sad. I knew you had it difficult, but I was rooting for you so hard.
Of course you're completely welcome here, if only to receive a virtual hug.

[jewel]

I'm sorry honey

You are more than welcome around here. We all have varying degrees of issues and I know no one would ever dismiss yours as 'minor.' We're all on the same sucky playing field.

No one *really* wants to be here, but it's a good group. Hope your stay isn't too long.

[thatgirl2478]

you can definitely come here.

[ilovecandy]

You are more than welcome here. So sorry to hear about your d&e

[discogranny]

I remember you from Getting Pregnant when we all first moved over here. I am so sorry to hear that things did not turn out well with your pregnancy. I remember your pregnancy announcement and was excited for you. You are more than welcome here but I am sorry that you have to be here.

[G22]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please feel welcome anytime here.

[HoneySpider]

Thanks guys...sucks we're all over here but I guess if we have to be, at least the company's good, right?

Here's hoping for some good news soon for this board.

[trufflefries]

I'm so sorry! ((gentle hugs))

[lola]

I'm so sorry, Honey! Welcome over.

(PS - I was MKE Sweetie back in October. )

[bronxgirl]

Welcome HS!

[degal99]

Welcome Honey! Sorry you're here, but it is a great group for support.

[KaraOrNot]

Hey Honey! Sorry you are here, but welcome.

[Deleted]

Welcome welcome! How are you guys holding up?

[anonymess]

Of course you are welcome here! (hug) I've posted in some of your MMM posts but just want to say again how sorry I am for the loss of your baby girl.

[HoneySpider]

Feb 13, 2013 20:23:10 GMT -5 @bonsoirlune said:

Welcome welcome! How are you guys holding up?

We're actually doing ok all things considered...we're just working on getting back to normal (since things haven't really been "normal" for a while) and making sure we take care of ourselves and each other. We're very lucky, we had a strong relationship going into this and it's only getting stronger. 

[Deleted]

HoneySpider glad to hear you are staying strong. Crazy how super shitty situations bring us closer together, although in a way, I'm glad it does. It's always a good thing to have someone to lean on who really "gets it."

[genet313]

I was watching your story Honey, and I'm so sorry to hear how it ended.  Welcome.  I hope your healing process is short and easy.