I have to see my XH tonight

[rikki]

He called last week and told me that I had some boxes left at our old condo.  I told him I couldn't talk at that point and would get back to him.  He just called again today and said that if I don't meet him tonight (he is leaving for a trip to Spain tomorrow with his whore girlfriend) that he would throw them away.  I offered to pay for him to ship them to my house and he refused.  He is such a jerk and can push my buttons like nobody else in the world.  Please pray that I can keep my composure and that it is super fast and easy. 

[vtdiamond]

Ugggh, Rikki that sucks, good luck.

[liveintheville]

Feb 13, 2013 15:30:09 GMT -5 RockNVoll said:

Want me to come with you? I have a couple of appointments tonight but could be there around 8:30.

At least he's giving you your stuff back, I guess. Any chance J could go with you and you can show him and your belly off at the same time? Is it bad that I am evil grinning at the thought of him seeing your bump?

Ha! My first thought was I hope he chokes when he sees you're pregnant

[fuddyduddy]

Good luck. I hope it is quick and easy.

[rikki]

He is probably too dumb to figure out I am pregnant and will just think that I am fat.

You're so sweet to offer, R! I think I will be ok. I am actually making him come to my apartment and will just have him drop them in the lobby and go. He initially wanted me to meet him somewhere in the middle but I refused.

Hopefully he and his girlfriend eat bad tapas and spend their time in Spain sick.

[vtdiamond]

Could you have J come down to the lobby with you to "help" you carry the boxes so he's there for moral support?

I too would love to see the look on his face when he sees your baby belly!

[rikki]

J will probably still be working at that point. If he is here I might consider having him help but I really don't want to introduce him to that crazy and potential drama.

[liveintheville]

I say J comes down to carry the boxes up for you and says something like, "let me get those, you shouldn't be carrying heavy boxes while pregnant". You know, drive it home for Jose, that fucker.

[liveintheville]

Feb 13, 2013 15:50:34 GMT -5 rikki said:

J will probably still be working at that point. If he is here I might consider having him help but I really don't want to introduce him to that crazy and potential drama.

In that case I'd be bitchy and say, "Have fun on your trip! I plan on traveling a lot, myself, before the baby comes."

[rikki]

Feb 13, 2013 15:52:31 GMT -5 liveintheville said:

Feb 13, 2013 15:50:34 GMT -5 rikki said:

J will probably still be working at that point. If he is here I might consider having him help but I really don't want to introduce him to that crazy and potential drama.

In that case I'd be bitchy and say, "Have fun on your trip! I plan on traveling a lot, myself, before the baby comes."

That I might do!  You guys are such bad (good?) influences  

[liveintheville]

Feb 13, 2013 15:54:03 GMT -5 rikki said:

Feb 13, 2013 15:52:31 GMT -5 liveintheville said:

In that case I'd be bitchy and say, "Have fun on your trip! I plan on traveling a lot, myself, before the baby comes."

That I might do!  You guys are such bad (good?) influences  

He deserves no mercy.

[liveintheville]

Feb 13, 2013 16:03:14 GMT -5 RockNVoll said:

You know, I sort of think I wouldn't bring up the baby at all. Make him wonder when he sees you--that will drive him more crazy than if you tell him outright. Maybe rub your belly a lot though

You should listen to RNV. I'm just spiteful. She's classy

[rikki]

Feb 13, 2013 16:03:14 GMT -5 RockNVoll said:

You know, I sort of think I wouldn't bring up the baby at all. Make him wonder when he sees you--that will drive him more crazy than if you tell him outright. Maybe rub your belly a lot though

Evil.... I like!  :Y:

[noodleoo]

Feb 13, 2013 16:03:14 GMT -5 RockNVoll said:

You know, I sort of think I wouldn't bring up the baby at all. Make him wonder when he sees you--that will drive him more crazy than if you tell him outright. Maybe rub your belly a lot though

I'd do this.  I'm not sure I'd want to invite more drama into your life, Rikki! 

Good luck!  It sucks you have to see him.  I hope it is a totally boring non-event. 

[liveintheville]

rikki You need to update us on how it went!

[rikki]

The whole experience can be summed up in 4 words: huge fucking shit show. At least it is over and I have promised myself that under no circumstances will I allow myself to be in a situation where I ever have to see him again.

On the plus side, it made me even more grateful for what I have now.

[LoveTrains]

Big hugs to you. I am sorry you had to deal with that asshat today.

[vtdiamond]

Oh Rikki so sorry he was such an ass. You are a much classier and better person then he is.

[liveintheville]

Oh, rikki, I'm so sorry. God he is such an ass. I hope you're doing well. You have so many amazing things in your life now. Screw him.

[drloretta]

I'm so sorry Rikki. More proof you're better off done with him

[noodleoo]

Sorry. Glad it is over with and hopefully that's the last time you have to see him. Enjoy the weekend!!!