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[trufflefries]

I was just wondering if anyone had a blog they'd like to share. I'm always looking for new reads. I don't update mine super frequently, but I just did a long, rambly one about infertility. It helps me to get my angst out when I write, even if no one but me reads it.   Here's the link in case anyone is interested, I won't be offended if you scan it and go tl; dr though. Haha.

I am 1 in 8

[G22]

Mine is mostly just updating family and friends on our lives. Nothing too exciting. I don't know how to make it clicky from my iPod. Sorry!

gumby22c.wordpress.com

[degal99]

Here's mine:

ttcwithinfertility.wordpress.com/

Also, I really took this quote to heart, "They may question their desire for children, but not their ability to have them," so thank you for sharing!

[thatgirl2478]

sunandstars - this hit me:

"It's a grief that can't be spoken because it's a loss of something that hasn't happened."

[ilovecandy]

I have a blog but like gumby it is more about my life to keep my family and friends updated. There are a few posts about infertility on it but not many.

[trufflefries]

Thanks guys! I'll check your blogs out

A side note: I decided to post the blog up on my facebook page...just to put my story out there because so few people talk about it. 99% of the responses were overwhelmingly positive. But I still got a couple (and one from a family member, no less!) saying that I needed to "just be patient" and "don't worry, you're young and have lots of time-as soon as you stop worrying it will happen".

REALLY?!? This is WHY no one talks about it. Ugh.

[G22]

I'm tired of hearing responses like that, Sun. I don't really talk to many people IRL about it because I'm tired being told that. I love my BFF but she's awful at this.

"Yes, I will worry about it. No, its not happening on its own. No, I don't want your opinion. I just want to vent without getting unwanted advice."

Sorry your getting that. I don't talk about TTC on my blog partially due to that, and partially due to the fact that I don't want EVERYBODY to know all my business.

[KaraOrNot]

trufflefries - Your post made me tear up.

[bronxgirl]

Feb 22, 2013 16:39:41 GMT -5 thatgirl2478 said:

sunandstars - this hit me:

"It's a grief that can't be spoken because it's a loss of something that hasn't happened."

What an excellent description!  This is just how I feel.