Had a f/u visit at my RE today

[bronxgirl]

I was starting to feel better, but when I got there I ended up crying almost the whole time.  Luckily my doctor was really understanding and supportive.  He said there's no real medical reason why IVF didn't work b/c everything looked so good and that if we did it again our chances would still be around 35%.  He also did an u/s to see if there were any cysts and everything looked good.  We're going to try on our own for a few cycles, but might consider going back in a few months and doing another IVF cycle.  I'd be all for it, but I hope I'm not throwing good money after bad.  So, I guess I am sort of still TTC.  I just hope I'm not setting myself up for prolonged dissapointment.

[KaraOrNot]

I can't imagine the emotional roller coaster that you been on in the past few months. FX for you, however you proceed!

[lola]

I've been thinking about you, Bronx.

Whatever you decide, I'm wishing the absolute best for you. ((Hugs))

[trufflefries]

Been thinking about you too! No matter what you decide, we are here if you need to vent/cry/etc.

[murdock]

(( hugs))) I'm sorry.
We've been on an extended break too, after several iuis and just trying ourselves without charting, etc.
It's been good to just let things be for a little bit.
Wishing you the best of luck!!

[Deleted]

Wishing you the best!

[ilovecandy]

(Hugs). Thinking if you best wishes!

[bronxgirl]

Thanks so much everyone. When my OB first referred me to the RE about 4ish yrs ago he warned me that he's an excellent doctor, but personality wise a bit of a jerk. Turns out he's incredibly nice and sensitivie and supportive. He gave me a big hug yesterday and was encouraging, but undersatnding of why we might not be able to do another IVF cycle. I wonder what happened with him and my OB.

[HoneySpider]

I'm sorry this has been such a crazy and emotional journey for you. ((hugs))

[Deleted]

I'm sorry! That blows. ((hugs))