This is flameful. One night, when H and I had been dating a few months, we were kinda drunk and had a "numbers" conversation. I didn't want him to think I was a slore so I lied. And then we never talked about it again, so to this day he still thinks I've been with 5 people instead of 13.
:/
yes I know H's.
And I also fudged my number initially when H asked me when we were still dating. Only buy 1, but apparently I thought that 1 REALLY made a difference. Then one night in Aruba we both got SUPER drunk, and he told me this big secret he'd been keeping from me. So I came clean about the number. Under normal circumstances I think we would have been kind of pist/irritated, but since we were on vacation and completely blasted, we just laughed and laughed.
eta - whoa, this thread went in a VERY different direction than I was anticipating. Full thread reading before posting fail.
I think the thing that makes a small amount of sense from what Fog is saying is the fact that several posters said they don't count men they had oral sex with in their number. Therefore if oral sex doesn't count as sex for previous posters she may infer that women having oral sex would also not count. I'm not justifying her response, just saying why it may have come about.
I personally wouldn't count men I only had oral sex with- but I also wouldn't count men who put their finger in me even though it's penetration. But alas, I don't keep count at all. It's just not an important stat in my life.
If you think you didn't have sex then you didn't have sex.
It really doesn't require so much thought.
This is some delusional crap, right here. It's pretty much as delusional as the girls who would have anal sex and still claim virginity. Remember those girls? They cracked me up.
If you think you didn't have sex then you didn't have sex.
It really doesn't require so much thought.
This is some delusional crap, right here. It's pretty much as delusional as the girls who would have anal sex and still claim virginity. Remember those girls? They cracked me up.
I had a super Christian friend who would have tons of anal sex, but "I'm a VIRGIN! I never had sex!" Now that she's an adult with a couple kids, she's all "Yah, I had sex. That was stupid to think I was a virgin". lol
Hmmm I am sitting her counting. I would say somewhere around 15. could be less but that is a good guestimate. I am going to count now since I have nothing else to do.
If you think you didn't have sex then you didn't have sex.
It really doesn't require so much thought.
This is some delusional crap, right here. It's pretty much as delusional as the girls who would have anal sex and still claim virginity. Remember those girls? They cracked me up.
Anyone got a number over 100? I'mlookin'for100gimme100anyonegot100?
Jimmy Carter said that thinking about sex with other people is a form of adultery, so yeah. According to Jimmy Carter, I am waaaaay over 100! I mindfuck so many people, I can't remember them all!
7, but I have two subtractions. -1 for a micropeen, it doesn't count if I never felt it -1 for the guy who came on the back of my thigh as he was trying to get the condom on before he ever got to put it in
Lol!i always joke that my number is only 2 because I lost my virginity to a micropeen and I couldn't feel it so it doesn't count.
Haha- same here. I didn't feel a damn thing. I didn't even know he was in and then he was done.