2. Tomorrow is J's last day at work for awhile, she will be out for up to 7 weeks, I'm calling it her mental health break.
hope everything is okay.
send some of that warm weather east! it f-ing snowed this morning!
Thanks CT, between the death of her cousin in Nov, her boss who treats her like crap and expects J to do her job, and our relationship issues, she just needs some time off to refocus. She's hoping her boss gets fired while she's on leave so she can go back to clean up the mess and hopefully be promoted to GM.
Post by rikkiandjulie on Mar 14, 2013 11:52:34 GMT -5
1. DW gets her MBA tonight. I'm missing the ceremony and bummed but I am SO excited for her.
2. My sister won't delete the guy I had an affair with off if Facebook. She just says "Why is it a big deal, Why does it bother you?" Then today she calls to tell me he has a new girlfriend. Um hey little sis, i don't give a fuck, and can you please delete him, it's important to DW and I both! Thanks.
3. Counseling Tomorrow.
4. I may have found DW and I a rental for when we move back in together in August.
5. In Sept. I am starting a year long massage/estethics program. Ill have an AAS at the end of it too!
6. I'm really pissed at my sister.
7. My youngest sister is visiting during her spring break next week
8. I want to sell my car when DW and I move back in together. Having two is a luxury but we only NEED one.
Post by seattlekari on Mar 14, 2013 12:18:49 GMT -5
Butterfly, I hope the time off is helpful for J...and you too.
1. I would take either snow or sun at this point, the gray is getting old.
2. I have an all day continuing ed class tomorrow. Looking forward to getting out of the office.
3. Said class check-in is 7:30-8 and it's further from home than my usual commute. Going to be an early morning for E.
4. A has to work this weekend. Sucks because they are not even into what is going to be their busy time and they are already on mandated weekends.
5. A is recovering from what she is calling the plague and is out of sick time due to their stupid program where they take half of your sick time away every year on your anniversary.
6. Boy, I'm just a bundle of happy today.
7. I haven't seen my bff in far too long. Maybe this weekend.
8. Our HOA has been battling a contractual disagreement with the neighboring HOA for years now (due to some dictator-like leadership and scare tactics being used in the other hood). There is a town hall meeting between the two hoods this weekend...should be interesting.
9. I am looking forward to catching up on my sleep.
Post by never2amazing on Mar 14, 2013 12:49:01 GMT -5
1. I received a small book of poetry that was written and compiled by an ex-girlfriend. She sent it to both C and I. However in the card that came with it she thanked me for encouraging her to write and having the honor of once being my "tawdry" girlfriend. C was not terribly pleased.
2. I am friend's with all my exes, except one. They all have good memories and at times feel the need to voice that. Is that terrible? Even if it really doesn't mean anything? (Just thinking out loud.)
3. I hate writing trip reports...ugh, another one is due.
4. I don't know why, but I am craving some chicken scampi from Olive Garden.
5. I had a really good seaweed salad for lunch. Sadly, I know I am going to be hungry in about an hour.
6. I have had a terrible headache for a couple of days and advil barely helps. Yuck!
7. I am listening to oldies and I swear that 90 percent of the songs have been sad love songs.
8. I wonder if C and I will ever go back to going to bed at the same time more times than not?
9. Our dog is blowing her coat...I only wear black pants to work...that combination is not good.
10. I hope we have a good weekend. We have yet to tell the Kiddos that Grammy is not coming.
Post by twomoms2twins on Mar 14, 2013 13:07:04 GMT -5
1) my anger has subsided and now I just feel pain not a i broke a toe pain a diff pain that i cant understand
2) The energy has been zapped from me and i feel so Eyeorish?
3)DW and I are talking things out but I still feel like i have to pull it out of her which upsets me. I do realize that she is her own persona and not her DAD but i also explained the similarities to her and feel like we were both blown away.
4) I just wish she would stand on a hill and shout it out and just tell everyone and express and own it.
5) Just wanna start counceling ASAP but they always seem to not be taking new patience or dont accept our insurance and now DW says our insurance will change so so we should wait. I DONT HAVE WAIT in my vocab THIS IS HAPPENING NOW ...
6)I am so torn because the ONE PERSON i want to talk to about this and cry and hug is my MOM- but I know I can not go to her or my dad because I dont want this to tarnish their thought or idea or relationship with DW (is that bad) but I am dying not talking to them. I told DW this broke down actual and she said THANK YOU .. but regardless who I spoke to its just not the same
7)I will go to Alanon meetings on Mondays - my life is now going to be filled with meeting and DW life is filled with even more meeting. I am torn with this because i feel its taking time away from what we can do but KNOW ITS SO NEEDED
8) I have lost faith in this board due to one BAD SEED - yes **redacted by mod**(MOMMYMONSTER)I am talking about you. Its sad you feel compelled to stir the pot and you have had it in for me since the Yahoo board- Perhaps it makes you feel better to bring and take stories and pray on people who are a lil weak and very vulnerable but you should not bring and take stories and be such a lurker internet creeper. I am real and raw and DW know exactly how i feel she just chooses not to see it sometimes and she already read this post in-case you feel so compelled. I think its great that you reached out to her and wish you would have done so with out a malicious agenda she really could have used a friend. Sadly, i dont think i am the only one who has had this issue with you.
9) ok well i am sure i prolly violated some type or TOS so i will prolly get banned but before I Do there are some AMAZING People on here and I thank those of you who have helped, listened in the past.
1. 2 more hours of work. 2. L made 6 doz cupcakes for a bake sale tomorrow. We asked our friend/music teacher to meet me at school tomorrow morning to help get them out of the car (proceeds are going to the music program) - and now she is saying that won't be there and I can just leave them in her classroom. L has spent hours and $$ baking, pretty sure the least you can do it show up to help. Whatevs. 3. Now that L isn't doing school on the weekends, we have something almost every Saturday night from now till the end of May. Whoo hoo for having a social life again! 4. Gray has taken to sleeping in the nude. Silly kid. (he is allowed to sleep naked, just not naked in the same bed as his brother (they like to both sleep in Carter's bed.) 5. I can't believe they are almost 7y. 6. I had to go To HIV training yesterday. The last portion was about GLBT stuff (what the acronyms mean, etc.) I wanted to raise my hand to see if I could get a pass for that part. 7. Traffic has been delightful in the mornings. Door to door (including drop off) in an hour. 8. L has been elected to the Board of Directors for the kids' school. Go her!
1. Hen was so damn cute at his sports class today. 2. I am watching a teaching dvd for work. I am going to love this job so much. 3. Speaking of - teaching another class today!! This time, observed by my colleague - excited to get her feedback!! 4. I am totally stopping at a sandwich shop for our dinner tonight. Not even sorry. 5. Oh my god, no snow left in my backyard. Love seeing grass out the window. Let's go spring!!! 6. So pumped - I have this pair of jeans that I love from Marshalls. They were only 16.99 and they are so comfy and cute. I bought them a long time ago. I went back yesterday...found two more pairs of the same!!! Wahoo!!! 7. I am antsy to get going and teach my class! 8. Hen announced he did not want to go to work with Mommy, haha. So he's going to play with my neighbor. I think he would have done fine, but I'm kind of relieved he's not coming. I have enough to worry about! 9. Ahaha, this dvd is great. Watching a bunch of music teachers dance around and sing to the songs. Nice to know I am not alone in my affinity for (good) children's music. 10. I should eat something...