How was your weekend?

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Life in my house has been tenuous lately.  We had our first session of marriage counseling on Friday morning and I felt pretty good.  FF to Friday night and it all fell apart again.  After bawling my eyes out to MH about how much his bitter anger has been upsetting me, he turned around on Saturday.  I went to yoga/he went to the gym and then we spent yesterday afternoon together out to lunch and shopping.  On the drive home, he asked if I wanted ice cream (I asked to go out for ice cream on Friday night - which erupted into WWIII), so we stopped and had ice cream sundaes for dinner.  It turned out to be a really good day. 

This morning, we made breakfast together and went to get a mani/pedi (yes, MH gets his nails done - he was one of three guys in there this morning), he did the grocery shopping, and I'm getting some work and job searching done. 

I'm hoping this momentum carries forward through the week. 

[G22]

@bonsoirlune I'm sorry you guys are having a rough time. I hope it continues to move forward and get better!

It was a laid back weekend here. We cleaned the house yesterday, and I skipped going running for a nap. But then in the evening I was craving, and I mean CRAVING, a sangria. I rarely drink, but when I do that's what I like and guess St Patricks day/weekend got to me. So we went out for drinks. Today we went to church and lunch after. We talked about going to the gym in a bit, but I'm sensing a nap in my future again

[jewel]

Bons - I hope you guys continue on the upswing. IF is so tough, and I'm sure it sucks to feel like you two aren't on the same team.

My weekend has been quiet. I'm sick, so I've spent most of my time lazing around in bed or on the couch. The weather is beautiful right now, and I wish I could be outside enjoying it.

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jewel Feel better!

G22 - I LOVE sangria, but it's seriously my kryptonite!

[lola]

I went back home to see my sisters and their kids. It was really, really nice. I was there Friday and Saturday, and came home today. I'm laying on the couch watching TV now.

I'm having a bummer of a day today. M cycles have been anywhere between 23 and 31 days. I didn't start temping until January 2013, but have been TTC much longer. The last two cycles (I'm on cycle three of temping/charting) my LP has been 13 days. I'm 17DPO right now. No spotting, no period, tender breasts, on and off light cramping for the last four or five days. I was CONVINCED that this was my cycle. I just tested, BFN.



I know that the last two cycles could have been a fluke, coincidence, whatever, but I guess I just really really thought that it meant my LP was going to be 13 days, and I'm four days past when my period should have started. It's late enough that I should have gotten a BFP if I was pregnant, so I know I'm not and I didn't even expect to be, but. Still, bummer.

Bons - I hope things keep improving for you two. I sorry things have been shitty.

[mae141]

@bonsoirlune- it sounds like your H is being receptive to things! I hope that it keeps up. How often will you go to counseling? 

My weekend was pretty laid back, which is exactly how I like it. Went to the ILs for dinner Friday night and we got a pizza last night. I went out with a girlfriend for lunch today and now I'm trying to get my taxes finished. 

[changedname]

lola - you are not out until AF shows so I still have my fingers crossed for you.

I went to a St Patrick's day party on both Saturday and Sunday. I am all greened out now. Also went to the gym as trying to make the most of it before I start stims.