Post by Saint Monica on Mar 31, 2013 8:52:23 GMT -5
1. My bestie needs a divorce and wants my help. I had gave a consultation. I am not sure if I want to help b/c I referred to his wife using many a cuss word throughout the consult.
2. I had an argument with my Dad and I dont know what to do. I blame myself alot for the argument b/c I should have just said "I am not going to discuss my personal finances with you" when he initiated the conversation. I know the place where he was coming from was trying to be helpful but he was really hurtful in his delivery. I tried to explain but he says he is not sorry.
I showered last night before bed and I don't plan to shower again until tomorrow morning before work
This describes practically every Sunday for me. I don't get the big deal unless I plan on scrubbing the bathroom (which necessitates a shower for me) or going out somewhere nice on Sunday night.
This describes practically every Sunday for me. I don't get the big deal unless I plan on scrubbing the bathroom (which necessitates a shower for me) or going out somewhere nice on Sunday night.
Well according to some people in the other thread we are gross, sorry to break it to you
The point was people that don't shower every 2-3 days not every other day.
Post by cheeseandcrackers on Mar 31, 2013 9:51:16 GMT -5
My MIL had a mole removed on her face and she is too embarrassed for anyone to see her right now.. I actually think she picked the perfect timing because we don't have to do the whole easter gathering bs.. ha. I am such a great daughter in law.
I don't want to be with the ILs today. Its our third holiday without FIL and I know my nephew will have about 5 tantrums in the 3 hours we'll be there.
I had a dream last night that my grandfather didn't have Alzheimer's anymore. He's had it for 10 years but he just snapped out of it and was his old self. We ate a mountain of ice cream, he played piano and was his old self. It was amazing, he is my favorite grandparent and I miss him so much.
My mom called about an hour ago, he passed away this morning. I don't know if I believe in heaven but if its real, he is definitely there. He was such a great man....and now I'm sobbing like a baby all over again.
I had a dream last night that my grandfather didn't have Alzheimer's anymore. He's had it for 10 years but he just snapped out of it and was his old self. We ate a mountain of ice cream, he played piano and was his old self. It was amazing, he is my favorite grandparent and I miss him so much.
My mom called about an hour ago, he passed away this morning. I don't know if I believe in heaven but if its real, he is definitely there. He was such a great man....and now I'm sobbing like a baby all over again.
That's really cool. I'm sorry for your loss, but I'm sure he's found peace beyond his disease. Alzheimer's is so brutal, I understand how hard it is to see a love one through it.
Post by Jalapeñomel on Mar 31, 2013 10:16:48 GMT -5
I miss jelly beans, and easter candy in general. It seems weird that everyone is out celebrating and we are doing nothing. We don't celebrate easter per se, but when we lived in the US, we used it as an excuse to have people over, make brunch, hide eggs with booze in them, LOL.
I can't actually think about anything serious in my life without having a panic attack: kids, finances, job, taxes...you name it, it's fucked up. So I'm sewing and crocheting a lot to keep myself from thinking about it all.
I set aside a couple of two hour blocks a day to deal with those things, but I really just want to run away.
Not flameful. You've been dealt a tough hand the last while.
Post by deanlicker78 on Mar 31, 2013 10:44:33 GMT -5
We are going to my MILs for lunch today. They aren't doing eggs or anything today because SD and SS aren't there. So they are making all the kids wait two weeks until SD and SS come back to do the egg hunt. They feel it would be "unfair" to do an egg hunt twice. I'm a little surprised we are even eating an Easter meal with them at all this year because we don't normally celebrate any holiday unless my stepchildren are here with us. So....baby steps I guess???
I'm really trying not to be an angry bitch about this because they are very good people, they just don't get it.
Post by Ruby Gloom on Mar 31, 2013 10:48:57 GMT -5
H, Nicholas & I are headed to the ILs for Easter. I let my big kids go to my moms for Easter because they are uncomfortable w/the constant fighting between MIL & FIL. H just now texted MIL to let her know they weren't coming to cut down on the length of time we would have to listen to her bitch about it. I just popped a Xanax. Now we have to come up w/a reason the big kids didn't come. H wants to tell them the truth. I may let him.
Post by mommylikestattoos on Mar 31, 2013 10:55:39 GMT -5
My flameful - I'm over the use of the word rage/ragey on this board. I seriously doubt people are really driven to "a violent anger" even a small percentage of the times it's used to describe something that pissed them off or upset them.
I had a dream last night that my grandfather didn't have Alzheimer's anymore. He's had it for 10 years but he just snapped out of it and was his old self. We ate a mountain of ice cream, he played piano and was his old self. It was amazing, he is my favorite grandparent and I miss him so much.
My mom called about an hour ago, he passed away this morning. I don't know if I believe in heaven but if its real, he is definitely there. He was such a great man....and now I'm sobbing like a baby all over again.
I have had a dream about my grandparents after they pass as well.I like to think it's their way of letting us know they are ok.
I had a dream last night that my grandfather didn't have Alzheimer's anymore. He's had it for 10 years but he just snapped out of it and was his old self. We ate a mountain of ice cream, he played piano and was his old self. It was amazing, he is my favorite grandparent and I miss him so much.
My mom called about an hour ago, he passed away this morning. I don't know if I believe in heaven but if its real, he is definitely there. He was such a great man....and now I'm sobbing like a baby all over again.
I have had a dream about my grandparents after they pass as well.I like to think it's their way of letting us know they are ok.
Big hugs to you.
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This exactly. The day FIL passed away, I could feel him in our bedroom. We were the only ones who didn't get to say goodbye when he was in the ER (SIL and BIL went in to confirm it was him). We got to the ER at 325 and he was pronounced dead at 327am. I think he was coming into our room to say it was okay and he was okay and he loved us.