So as you all know we are moving. The first week we are there, MH and I have a couple days of orientation. Not to mention unpacking, and all that jazz. My IL's have pitched the idea of keeping Andrew that week here in FL. I have never left him overnight, and the thought of him being 10 hours from me for a week frankly scares me. I have (against my sanity) suggested MIL stay with us that first week so we can find child care, get our jobs situated, and unpack. They havent answered yet. Wwyd?
If you and your H have never been away from him overnight, I would imagine 10 days away would be rough for him and you guys! I know how you feel about your ILs, but if I were in your position, I'd much rather have her come and stay at the new house with the baby while you all adjust. I would think it would help make a smoother transition. Good luck!!
How's your relationship with your MIL? My MIL came and took care of the kids for us when we moved and it was great. Of course, she frequently stays with us, so it's not like this was a new experience for us.
She is fantastic with A. And he loves her to no end. She just drives MH and me batty sometimes ETA: ok I have to retract "fantastic". I forgot about the cheeseburger incident. But she's really good with him.
If mil will come with you that seems best. But, I would leave Thad if I had that kind of schedule for a week. It would be hard, but I think easier on him n
I agree with the other ladies, unless your MIL will truly be impossible to handle, I think it's best if she comes down. Hopefully she can take him out and about a lot, so you'll be able to focus on getting settled in and you won't be around her toooooo much. She does sound like a nutjob, but ten days would be a long time to be away. It would be perfect to be able to be with A in the evenings but have the days to get your business done.
I would personally prefer her to stay with me than the alternative. I'm a freak though and have never really left C. Although, you might be able to get more done with A in FL.
I would have MIL stay with you, if she's willing. I wouldn't be able to be away from my baby that long, and I don't think you would be able to concentrate on everything you have to do with him away from you.
Post by creamsiclechica on Apr 10, 2013 14:47:32 GMT -5
I have to agree with the consensus here. I think it'd be much too overwhelming and distracting to have him that far away from you, especially while trying to situate things in the new life you've got going on. Plus, it might help alleviate some of the issues you're having with the IL's about uprooting and leaving. She'd feel welcomed, useful, and part of what's happening, and Andrew will be in good, trustworthy hands so you can focus and do what you have to do. I hope she can go and it all works out for you!