Update: I made up my mind

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So I was going to tell DH that I wanted to do the injects cycle right away, no waiting, but his flight was delayed Wednesday night so he had to stay over in Atlanta and I didn't see him until last night....which was about 20 minutes after our overnight guest arrived.

Today DH is leaving for the weekend to go camping and I'm meeting up with two of my girlfriends and having a girl's weekend.

I was all set to just order the meds and hopefully being able to talk it over with him when he gets back on Sunday. I still haven't started my period but I assume it will arrive this weekend.

But...we had fun last night and some really hot sex while our friend was in the other room. And I just want a break. I don't want to talk with him about TTCing all the time. And we're going away almost every Friday for the next 6 weeks so I don't want to have to worry about scheduling appointments.

I'm not going on birth control though so we'll just roll the dice. If I do end up pregnant and any of you whores tell me it was from "relaxing" I will choke you though.

So anyway, in case you were wondering what I decided.

[brit1017]

:Y: Good for you!

[sewpinkgal]

You sound really good about your decision, which is ultimately the most important thing. I'm happy for you.

[dcrunnergirl]

That sounds like a good plan. And telling an IFer to just "relax" is pretty much one of the worst things a person could say, so I totally feel you on that one.

[curbsideprophet]

Have fun!

[Deleted]

I am glad you made your decision. Have fun.

PS...I love friend in the other room sex. There is something naughty feeling about it.

[SusanBAnthony]

Don't you worry, you just relax and you are SURE to get pg. Probably with twins.

Seriously though, the worst thing in the world is being stressed about scheduling appts when you are traveling. On top of IF stress, not worth it. 6 weeks is not going to make or break anything.

[froggy76]

Sounds like a good plan. Just relax and it will happen! (j/k)

[yellowbrkrd]

I'm glad you finally came to a decision. Have fun!

[bronxgirl]

I'm glad you came up with a plan you feel comfortable with. I'm sure it will be nice to take a mental break from thinking and stressing about it all the time. Throughout your whole journey I have always been so impressed with how resillient you are and how well you've coped with everything. Maybe you can teach me how to stay sane.

[barefootcontessa]

Good luck with everything. I am sorry things are so difficult.

[Deleted]

Good luck!

[hannamarin]

As long as somewhere in the back of your mind, you are thinking ( anxiously) that your relaxation will lead to triplets.

[Ashley&Scott]

I'm glad you have a plan! Have fun & relax!

[bronxgirl]

BTW, can you tell me about the cruise you're going on?

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Jun 8, 2012 14:03:28 GMT -5 bronxgirl said:

BTW, can you tell me about the cruise you're going on?

So H and I are really into jam bands. There's this cruise called Jam Cruise and it features 5 days and nights of music by a lot of great acts. We've wanted to go on it for a while but my job is crazy in January and I can't take off. BUT there's the whole thing with us moving and me leaving work so all of a sudden we can go. Also this year our favorite band is head lining.

It sounds really cool because I love music festivals but I also love to be clean and well rested so it's the best of both worlds.

www.jamcruise.com/2013/

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Jun 8, 2012 15:50:42 GMT -5 @ojo said:

Jun 8, 2012 11:43:47 GMT -5 jillbot5000 said:

I'm glad you made a decision and you feel good about it.

Your cheering section will be ready and waiting whenever you want to whip the pee sticks out again.

Ditto!

Add me to this list too!

[KaraOrNot]

I'm glad you made a decision. Good luck!

[kangaroo11]

Good luck!

[rex]

I'm glad you came to a decision you are happy with! Good luck!

[luvmagoldn]

Enjoy!!!