My udpate: my consult with the OB/GYN went ok. She talked about the process and gave me the name of the fertility practice her practice works with.
H and I talked after the appt and while we'd love to have a second child, if it doesn't happen we'll be fine with it. We'll go as far as a few cycles with fertility drugs, but that's it (going beyond fertility drugs was never our intent).
In the meantime, I've started temp charting and I'll keep using the OPKs - not sure if I'm bringing the CBE fertility monitor back out again). If I'm not pregnant come December, then we're closing up shop.
After talking, I think for me I needed to have the info so I could have an end-date and action plan after that, KWIM?
I'm glad you were able to get in sooner. Talking through options with a doctor is good. Sounds like you have a good idea of what you are willing to do. It gives you somewhere to start.