Post by rainbowchip on Apr 26, 2013 6:44:51 GMT -5
Last night DH was telling me how a new co-worker saw the picture of the kids on his phone and was asking about them. He said the guy had a tear run down his cheek while he was talking about them. Apparently the guy lost both of his kids. I'm not sure how but he was telling DH how he should have as many kids as he can. It hit home with DH and he is seriously thinking about having a third!
I'm really sad for this guy having to lose his kids but I'm so glad that he was able to change DH's view point! This is a guy who had his vasectomy scheduled and only cancelled because it was on Christmas eve.
So now I have to start thinking about when I will TTC. We need to get a people mover because 3 car seats will not fit in my back seat and I think I might want to wait until Dylan is in school so we don't have 3 in daycare.
I really think that this was the one thing that caused my marital issues. I woke up this morning feeling happier than I have in a long time! Plus its going to be in the 60s and 70s this weekend!
I'm happy for ya'll! Yay for no more marital issues, and of course more babies! I think my H will eventually talk me into 4 even though I would rather have 3.
Post by chasbride07 on Apr 26, 2013 8:13:43 GMT -5
Such a sad story, but that is awesome you guys are on the same page. With 2, I didn't feel done, and now with the 3rd I know I am, so I can only imagine how hard it would have been if DH had said he was done after the 2.
Post by DesertMoon on Apr 26, 2013 10:01:13 GMT -5
that's sad.. I'm glad your DH is down for more baby making...try not to be KU during the summer...I hear it's a bitch! So get started NEOWWWWWWWWWWWWWW so you wont be "severely" pregnant during the hot months.
Post by creamsiclechica on Apr 26, 2013 10:09:38 GMT -5
Oh rainbowchip, this makes me so incredibly happy for you, I know how this has been weighing on you, and I'm hoping it gives you both some clarity and communication for a lot of other things in your life. What a sad and beautiful revelation. I'm excited for you to start trying and for you to be in that happy place!