I wish I knew who they were so I could give them a good cunt punch. Fuck those bitches. You are awesome! I don't know what gets into people sometimes but they act all entitled to YOUR life. It was a freaking surprise party that you didn't know about and it's fucking ridiculous that she got all pissed then seemingly turned another 5 friends against you. FUCK THEM. If those other 5 bitches were too stupid to get your side of the story, then you are better off without them.
Bitches be crazy. You have done nothing wrong. I too would feel bad and rejected but try not to worry so much about them, they sound like a lot of work anyways.
They sound like immature assholes. What is so difficult to understand 1) the concept of a surprise party and 2) that not every party will include childhood friends.
You are better off without them, but I understand it hurting, especially the totally unnecessary comments about your weight. WTF?
I am having a tough time. I have PPD and am on medication for it. I feel great with respect to that and do not feel any fall out etc.
However, on the friends front I feel so upset and I can't stop crying. Is it because my friends suck or is it hormones / ppd.
So as I said some friends of mine got togehter on April 12th to throw me a surprise party. It was small and was all my work friends. some FB drama ensued where a friend of mine started shit on my wall about how she wasn't invited etc.
I wound up deleting her comment and subsequently hiding her from my status updates. She only ever made passive aggressive comments and I inboxed her that I didn't appreciate her snarkiness etc.
Fast forward to last night. I see that FIVE others have deleted me. That friend of mine from second grade who had emailed me that I was selfish for not calling her when I found out I was having a surprise party and inviting her (side note: this chick is good friends with PA FB chick.) She deleted me along with a loooong text about how I am cold, and I have pulled away from her and a few other really mean bitchy comments "You got fat and self conscious so you would never go out with us anywhere". She was always the "mean girl" in HS and I see she never grew up.
So second grade friend, FB chick, 2nd grade friends husband, and two other friends from that circle have Deleted me on FB. DH is like so what.. he doesnt' get that when someone does that its basically saying "Fuck you..I don't want to be your friend ever in real life or not"
While I know I am better off I am really hurt. I can't stop crying. Rejection is rejection and it hurts. I can't believe I am dealing with mean girls at my age.
I'm so sorry Sloan. These are mean people that you are better off not having in your life. You don't need their BS. I've lost some friendships lately and while the initial rejection stung I realized it was for the best in the long run. I hope you realize this too and can start to feel better soon. PPD makes everything seem that much "bigger" emotionally. It is ok to be upset, I know I would be. ((Hugs))
Post by flamingeaux on Apr 29, 2013 17:01:43 GMT -5
Okay from the little bit I know about you, from seeing you post on here, you seem awesome. And way too smart to hang out with snatchfaces like them who are so obtuse they can not grasp the concept of a SURPRISE Party....
ETA: I see everyone has already said what I just did, but it's worth repeating.
You are awesome. They are the suck, they're like ticks, and the deserve to be doused in rubbing alcohol and have their empty little heads popped.
They sound like total bitches. I know the initial rejection/whatever is tough, but you just 86'd a lot of negativity from your life. In the long run it's for the best.
I agree. You are better off with fewer, more wonderful friends than legions of dirtbags.
Also, just saying, I happen to know one person who lives a couple exits up who adores you and who would love to become your IRL pal.
Okay from the little bit I know about you, from seeing you post on here, you seem awesome. And way too smart to hang out with snatchfaces like them who are so obtuse they can not grasp the concept of a SURPRISE Party....
ETA: I see everyone has already said what I just did, but it's worth repeating.
You are awesome. They are the suck, they're like ticks, and the deserve to be doused in rubbing alcohol and have their empty little heads popped.
Thanks sweetie that means alot! Really thank you and everyone! I truly talk about my ml friends all the time so thank u all
({)@sloanpeterson(}) Fuck them. I had friends that treated me that way as well. Best thing I ever did was unfriend and block them so I can't see anything about them.