It's a miscarriage.

melindafelinda Senior Member Oh, hello Posts: 7,123 Likes: 4,968	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 14:32:32 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by melindafelinda on May 3, 2013 14:32:32 GMT -5 So ok news I guess. Fuck.
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changedname Full Member Posts: 4,025 Likes: 1,697	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 14:35:59 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by changedname on May 3, 2013 14:35:59 GMT -5 fuck Melinda. I'm so sorry. Did you go to the doctors in the end then? Did they mentioned they will do testing or anything now to see why this happening? I'm so sorry
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dana2006 Full Member Posts: 2,339 Likes: 1,593	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 14:43:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by dana2006 on May 3, 2013 14:43:41 GMT -5 ((((Melinda))))
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G22 Elder Posts: 11,484 Likes: 15,293	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 14:45:43 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by G22 on May 3, 2013 14:45:43 GMT -5 Hugs melinda.
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melindafelinda Senior Member Oh, hello Posts: 7,123 Likes: 4,968	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 14:59:04 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by melindafelinda on May 3, 2013 14:59:04 GMT -5 Thanks. I knew it wasn't good so this is probably the best outcome. They still think testing (beyond the basics they have done) is too premature. Which is frustrating, but I don't know.
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womet Moderator Co-Mod for MM Posts: 6,231 Likes: 3,844	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 15:08:08 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by womet on May 3, 2013 15:08:08 GMT -5 {{{hugs}}} melinda.
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Deleted Posts: 0	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 15:28:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on May 3, 2013 15:28:25 GMT -5 Ok, but still. I'm so sorry.
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It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 15:54:27 GMT -5 changedname, orangeblossom, and 1 more like this

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Post by discogranny on May 3, 2013 15:54:27 GMT -5

May 3, 2013 14:59:04 GMT -5 melindafelinda said:

Thanks. I knew it wasn't good so this is probably the best outcome.

They still think testing (beyond the basics they have done) is too premature. Which is frustrating, but I don't know.

This is frustrating for me to read on your behalf, so I can only imagine how frustrating it must be for you. So many hugs.

This is unsolicited, so you can feel free to tell me to STFU:Something I have learned in this whole IF deal is that you have to be your strongest and best advocate. In almost all arenas (including health insurance 95% of the time) hree miscarriages is considered the threshold for a repeat loss diagnosis. When you are ready, ask that a repeat loss panel be done. There is a reason this keeps happening to you, it is not just bad luck. If your doctor doesn't recognize that and isn't "ready" for you to get further testing, it might be time to find someone who is. This doesn't have to be an RE, even another OB/GYN would work. I am basically a stranger, but I absolutely HATE that this is happening to you and want it to stop so you can get your take home baby.

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genet313 Full Member Posts: 4,851 Likes: 2,495	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 16:09:08 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by genet313 on May 3, 2013 16:09:08 GMT -5 oh melinda, i'm so, so sorry. take care of yourself this weekend. and i agree with disco completely on being your own advocate. i would definitely ask for the panel.
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azurely Senior Member Posts: 6,245 Likes: 3,003	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 17:02:03 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by azurely on May 3, 2013 17:02:03 GMT -5 I'm so sorry Ditto discogranny, my OB/GYN did genetic testing after my 2nd m/c and the RE did a recurrent m/c panel, so it's not too early. Like others said, 3 m/c is usually the point it becomes recurrent.
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HoneySpider Moderator Water Cooler Mod Posts: 16,709 Likes: 21,158	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 17:05:21 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by HoneySpider on May 3, 2013 17:05:21 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 17:08:23 GMT -5

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Post by mae141 on May 3, 2013 17:08:23 GMT -5

I'm so sorry. My RE did testing after my miscarriage. I was afraid insurance wouldn't cover it because I hadn't had more than one, but they did, and I was glad to not have to wonder.

I hope it's over quickly and you are well taken care of.

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Deleted Posts: 0	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 17:12:20 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on May 3, 2013 17:12:20 GMT -5 Hugs! So sorry for your loss!
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KaraOrNot Elder Posts: 10,667 Likes: 4,633	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 17:29:37 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by KaraOrNot on May 3, 2013 17:29:37 GMT -5 I am so sorry. With your history, I agree that you need to find a new doctor and demand some additional testing. Hugs.
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BNL2 Full Member Posts: 1,195 Likes: 209	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 18:23:18 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by BNL2 on May 3, 2013 18:23:18 GMT -5 I'm so sorry Melinda.
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lola Full Member MKE Posts: 3,468 Likes: 1,292	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 18:24:28 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lola on May 3, 2013 18:24:28 GMT -5 I'm so sorry Melinda. </3 If there's anything we can do for you please let us know!
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Post by miniroller on May 3, 2013 18:29:24 GMT -5

Certainly hugs, hugs, hugs.
But also wanted to ditto @discoangry 's advice. Tons of hospital experience (not maternity related, but Still!!) has definitely shown patient advocacy (squeaky wheel) gets the attn. Again, so many hugs!! You've GOT this Melinda.

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Jalapeñomel Platinum Posts: 58,543 Likes: 54,800	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 18:32:10 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Jalapeñomel on May 3, 2013 18:32:10 GMT -5 A million hugs Melinda. A million.
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Post by melindafelinda on May 3, 2013 18:35:20 GMT -5

Thanks guys. This is technically my 5th pregnancy and loss. The first was like 15 years ago (they think I was 10 weeks) and the second (very early like this time) was about 2.5 years ago.

So recently I had the miscarriage in Dec at about 6 weeks. Ectopic and tube removal in March (6-7) weeks. And now this which was either super early, or possibly happened last month and the period I thought I had this month was actually the start of the miscarriage. I wasn't testing or temping so I have no idea.

I will take your advice and be more aggressive with my regular doctor next week. She was out all this week.

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jewel Senior Member Posts: 5,674 Likes: 4,277	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 18:49:02 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jewel on May 3, 2013 18:49:02 GMT -5 I'm so sorry Melinda I am glad that your tube is OK still.
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bronxgirl Moderator Posts: 13,860 Likes: 18,190	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 18:54:34 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bronxgirl on May 3, 2013 18:54:34 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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lola Full Member MKE Posts: 3,468 Likes: 1,292	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 19:06:34 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lola on May 3, 2013 19:06:34 GMT -5 Oh Melinda. In light of your update, yes, absolutely take Disco's advice. ((hugs))
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degal99 Full Member Posts: 1,489 Likes: 352	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 19:28:38 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by degal99 on May 3, 2013 19:28:38 GMT -5 ::hugs:: Agreed with everyone, be the squeaky wheel and be your advocate!
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bananapancakes Senior Member Posts: 9,922 Likes: 16,938	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 19:30:39 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bananapancakes on May 3, 2013 19:30:39 GMT -5 Oh Melinda, no one should have to go through all of that. I'm so sorry for your loss. I just want to hug you right now. Take care of yourself.
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speyedr Full Member Posts: 1,845 Likes: 1,868	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 20:04:54 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by speyedr on May 3, 2013 20:04:54 GMT -5 I'm so sorry, I hope that you push for testing and get some answers.
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ilovecandy Full Member Posts: 4,457 Likes: 4,202	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 20:20:27 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ilovecandy on May 3, 2013 20:20:27 GMT -5 ((hugs))
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daisy24342 Full Member Posts: 1,066 Likes: 317	It's a miscarriage. May 3, 2013 22:09:05 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by daisy24342 on May 3, 2013 22:09:05 GMT -5 I'm so sorry....
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trace Full Member Posts: 1,167 Likes: 1,083	It's a miscarriage. May 4, 2013 0:17:36 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by trace on May 4, 2013 0:17:36 GMT -5 I'm so sorry, Melinda.
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orangeblossom Elder Posts: 17,740 Likes: 17,737	It's a miscarriage. May 4, 2013 16:42:38 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by orangeblossom on May 4, 2013 16:42:38 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Hugs.
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anonymess Junior Member reading&barely posting since '05 Posts: 776 Likes: 175	It's a miscarriage. May 4, 2013 19:26:45 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by anonymess on May 4, 2013 19:26:45 GMT -5 Very sorry for your loss & glad it wasn't another ectopic pg.
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