i need to talk.

[lightyears]

and poof.

[crazycakes]

(hug) (hug2) hugs

This, too, shall pass. Hang in there.

[dcannie]

i'm so sorry. big hugs.

[luckyval]

Tell him he needs to find somewhere else to stay. Something's got to give

I'm sorry you're stuck in limbo like this

[lilafowler]

That sucks.  I'd be so on edge.  I'm sorry!

[lightyears]

and poof.

[LeggsBenedict]

I'm sorry.

[pantsparty]

Does he really know you're getting a divorce? Have you filed?

[lightyears]

May 14, 2013 18:21:23 GMT -5 pantsparty said:

and poof.

[2boys2danes]

That sounds super tough....sorry you are going thru this

[pantsparty]

This is so odd. Can someone come help you? Tell him he needs to leave?

I don't know how this might be handled if someone won't leave

I'm so sorry (((lightyears)))

[Deleted]

Yeah I am pretty sure if you are married it doesn't matter who paid for the house initially, you can't just change the locks and lock someone else out.

OP I'm sorry this is tough. What do you think would happen if you left and left the dogs with him temporarily? I understand not wanting to leave but if he won't your only options are to live together or leave.

[fuckyourcouch]

I'm really sorry lightyears. I don't have any advice but I'd be feeling the same as you. I hope he gets his shit together soon.

[rex]

I'm so sorry. I have no advice. I don't know how you could make someone leave their home. Maybe when you file he'll get it?

I am having a hard time in regards to why he would be so clueless and in denial.

[bania]

I'm so sorry lightyears. I have no idea how to help. Do you have a plan for after you file? In terms of living arrangements? Does he plan on ever leaving? Maybe even talking about that to him (if you haven't already) will let him know you intend to follow through with this.

[lightyears]

i need so many hugs, you guys.

[Saint Monica]

((lightyears))


hugs + triplekiss with Rigby

[Deleted]

((((((lightyears))))))) are there any nesties nearby that can come over and be with you? A friend? Your mom? I hate that you're alone.

[Deleted]

((Lightyears)) hugs to you. I'm sending prayers of strength and courage your way.

[lightyears]

May 14, 2013 18:44:41 GMT -5 mp said:

and poof.

[margotmacomber]

That sucks, I'm sorry.  (hugs)

[berbles]

Major hugs, lightyears. I am so so so thankful that H and I both have parents who are local, so once we made the decision, we didn't have to spend another night under the same roof. Is there no one you can stay with temporarily?

[lightyears]

May 14, 2013 18:51:38 GMT -5 berbles said:

and poof.

[LeggsBenedict]

[Yankees21]

((Hugs)) What a difficult situation. I hope he comes to terms with the reality (maybe once you file?)

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry, Lightyears.

[snickers]

I am so sorry. I hope he gets the point soon.

[alicenelson]

((LightYears)). Hang in there.

[olegregg]

(hug)sorry things are so hard right now.

[greenmonster]

I'm so sorry! Hugs!