I need to talk about a coworker's H UPDATED Again

[stephbfan]

Drive for 10 hours to spy her husband? I think she should spend her time driving to an attorney`s office to get a divorce.

Are you really close to her that you can give her any advice?

[fuzziebunnie]

After reading the update, I hope she divorces him soon. She should be using her time to call a lawyer instead of emailing him. I hope she quits playing his games.

[callunafirefly]

Is there no way she can call and get access to the account? Is it just his name on it, and thats why??
I'm guessing though that without looking she knows what she'll find so it doesn't matter anyway.

[bullygirl979]

May 14, 2012 12:05:12 GMT -5 loonylunalovegood said:

May 14, 2012 12:03:56 GMT -5 callunafirefly said:

Is there no way she can call and get access to the account? Is it just his name on it, and thats why??
I'm guessing though that without looking she knows what she'll find so it doesn't matter anyway.

Im pretty sure she already got access again. It just blows that he changed it to begin with.

The fact that he needed to change it is pretty telling. Those with nothing to hide don't hide anything!

[fuzziebunnie]

May 14, 2012 12:03:36 GMT -5 loonylunalovegood said:

May 14, 2012 11:59:37 GMT -5 fuzziebunnie said:

After reading the update, I hope she divorces him soon. She should be using her time to call a lawyer instead of emailing him. I hope she quits playing his games.

Me too! I just looked over and she's adding questions from Newlywed quizzes she's finding online to "quiz" him to see if he really knows her.

Ummm, Whut?

So the guy is cheating on her in some way or another, and she's asking him 'how well do you know me' questions? Obviously, he knows he can play her for a fool and she'll put up with it.

[fuzziebunnie]

Well, it is good one of them is ending it.

[stephbfan]

The end result is that they will not be together and that`s all that matter.
She needs to go to therapy ASAP. I cannot believe he is blaming it on her and she is buying it. She needs to make better decisions for herself so she doesn't end up with a douche like this again.

[achase123]

I just want to shake her. She's soooooo manipulated it's not even funny. So sad.