Ex-friend just sent me an invite to an event on FB

[montereybride]

I don't really know what to think except it made me sad.

I also don't know why I'm still FB friends with her. I've changed my settings so stuff she posts doesn't show up on my feed but I can't bring myself to delete her. I still love her and I like knowing that she's happy even though I miss her so fucking much. She just got engaged and I'm so sad that I won't be a part of that and won't get to share that joy with her. I'm a mess. I need another drink. I don't like feeling things.

So, what does the invite mean?

Does she want to mend things?

Was it meant as a giant "EFF YOU" because she knows I probably won't come?

Did she just randomly invite a bunch of people in her friend list and included me by mistake (there are over 300 people invited)?

Feeling things sucks.

I realize this post makes me sound like a whiny sniveling loser.

[pursemeatballs]

If you're this sad about the loss of your friendship, you should reach out to her and say that you miss her. See if she wants to have lunch.

[Jermys]

Is she the kind of person who would do the passive-aggressive fuck you invite? I would feel hopeful, but I would be too chicken to say anything. I'd probably just not acknowledge the invite.

[montereybride]

Jun 3, 2013 23:32:36 GMT -5 Jermys said:

Is she the kind of person who would do the passive-aggressive fuck you invite? I would feel hopeful, but I would be too chicken to say anything. I'd probably just not acknowledge the invite.

I'd like to think she wouldn't do the passive-aggresive fuck you invite. I think I'm going to go the head in the sand route.

[lime]

I'm sorry this is so hard. If it were me, I would just ignore it as the least painful option.

[Jermys]

Ugh. I'd totally do the head in the sand thing out of fear of rejection. I am a total wuss.

[CheshireGrin]

:-(

How far off is the event? I think I would sit on it for now, and maybe consider saying something as it gets closer.

[montereybride]

Jun 3, 2013 23:56:06 GMT -5 CheshireGrin said:

How far off is the event? I think I would sit on it for now, and maybe consider saying something as it gets closer.

It's in a couple weeks.

/shoves head in Jermy's boobs sand.

[CheshireGrin]

Jun 4, 2013 0:01:31 GMT -5 montereybride said:

Jun 3, 2013 23:56:06 GMT -5 CheshireGrin said:

How far off is the event? I think I would sit on it for now, and maybe consider saying something as it gets closer.

It's in a couple weeks.

/shoves head in Jermy's boobs sand.

Jermy's boobs would be so much more comforting.

[montereybride]

Jun 4, 2013 0:03:37 GMT -5 CheshireGrin said:

Jun 4, 2013 0:01:31 GMT -5 montereybride said:

It's in a couple weeks.

/shoves head in Jermy's boobs sand.

Jermy's boobs would be so much more comforting.

This is very true but I didn't want to be too presumptuous.


Also, I MISS YOUUUUUUUU!!

[CheshireGrin]

I've been elusive lately.

I'll send you an invite to something if it will make you feel better.

[montereybride]

Jun 4, 2013 0:21:47 GMT -5 CheshireGrin said:

I've been elusive lately.

I'll send you an invite to something if it will make you feel better.

I do love you so

(heart)

[polka]

I'm sorry

This is the friend that you recently had a falling out with, without an actual falling out, right? It was some kind of misunderstanding or am I thinking of something else?

Maybe she misses you as much as you miss her, but feels awkward reaching out because of how the friendship dissolved? I'm hoping the invite was intentional and that she still wants you to be a part of her life just as much as you want her in yours.

(((Hugs)))

[montereybride]

Jun 4, 2013 0:33:57 GMT -5 polka said:

I'm sorry

This is the friend that you recently had a falling out with, without an actual falling out, right? It was some kind of misunderstanding or am I thinking of something else?

Maybe she misses you as much as you miss her, but feels awkward reaching out because of how the friendship dissolved? I'm hoping the invite was intentional and that she still wants you to be a part of her life just as much as you want her in yours.

(((Hugs)))

Yes, same friend.

Now I'm all sniffly and shit.

Dammit

[Jermys]

Your head is welcome to hide in my boobs anytime. I'll even pet your hair and pat your back.

[polka]

Then, I do think she misses you too. Heck, when H pisses me the hell off it is usually over some misunderstanding, but I still love the guy even when I don't want to talk to the fool ; )

Things can happen in a friendship that hurt one or the other, but sometimes time is the only thing that will make it better before you can start that relationship again. Hopefully, she will come around and maybe this is part of it?

Either way, you're awesome and whatever the case may be with this invite situation, it doesn't change the fact that you are a good friend for her even if she isn't being one for you.

[snickers]

I think she probably did it by accident while inviting others. I'm really sorry