I think Immm flamed me first, I was having a bad week and I stuck around.
I know I have been since here and there, but generally it is not so bad that I stay away and I don't even remember names or anything.
the worst that I have received here was when someone said that I "trot my dead dad out to get sympathy" and a bunch of people agreed. that was probably the worst comment ever and really, really hurt. 1) because it's not true, I mention him when it fits the situation or I am missing him or something and 2) it made me feel like I am to never speak of him ever. I don't remember who said that comment and who agree, though I have an idea on some, but man, that really stung.
Damn, Cleo. That was a really shitty thing to say and I definitely never get/got that impression from you. Jeeeesus.
I'm with EB. That's awful!
Well, it did make me wonder if that is how I came off even though it's never my intention. Sometimes i just need to vent or I like to share stories.
The great thing about this board is I have found others who lost a parent as a child and that has been nice, even though that sounds odd. lol But growing up, other than my sister, no one could relate to how I felt. It's nice to meet people that just "get it".
I got flamed to high hell on MM for saying "retarded." I did apologize, but things just weren't the same after that.
The last MM straw for me was when somebody sent me a PM shaming me about bringing up kwynn's ridiculous toilet-paper-rolling ways because her husband committed suicide. My post was in a thread about hilarious memorable moments. That toilet paper shit was hilarious, and it in no way sullied the memory of anybody. That was seriously the straw that broke the overly judged camel's back for me. That was the moment I decided to immigrate.
Post by deanlicker78 on Jun 4, 2013 12:45:08 GMT -5
I got flamed in the post a long time ago about Aanc's H running out into the street to save a flag. EBB thought it was kind of a stupid thing to do, I agreed and ended up getting a "fuck off" from LHC.
I got flamed to high hell on MM for saying "retarded." I did apologize, but things just weren't the same after that.
The last MM straw for me was when somebody sent me a PM shaming me about bringing up kwynn's ridiculous toilet-paper-rolling ways because her husband committed suicide. My post was in a thread about hilarious memorable moments. That toilet paper shit was hilarious, and it in no way sullied the memory of anybody. That was seriously the straw that broke the overly judged camel's back for me. That was the moment I decided to immigrate.
Post by snipsnsnails on Jun 4, 2013 12:45:33 GMT -5
Not an all-out pile on flaming, but more poking fun in a mean sort of way. It honestly doesn't bother me and I tend to be pretty flippant and nonchalant in my reactions to things like that. I just don't usually have time or energy to engage. I'm not in my 20s anymore! So, that plus my use of emoticons with it tends to annoy people when, really, they just want me to go off and tell them to shut the &*%$ up. Ha!
I got flamed to high hell on MM for saying "retarded." I did apologize, but things just weren't the same after that.
The last MM straw for me was when somebody sent me a PM shaming me about bringing up kwynn's ridiculous toilet-paper-rolling ways because her husband committed suicide. My post was in a thread about hilarious memorable moments. That toilet paper shit was hilarious, and it in no way sullied the memory of anybody. That was seriously the straw that broke the overly judged camel's back for me. That was the moment I decided to immigrate.
was the TP something funny her H did? I don't see what's wrong with sharing that, especially if they already shared it. Suicide or not, it is nice to hear or remember funny/good stories involving a deceased loved one. Maybe that's just me.
I've been flamed a few times, especially when I first joined the old ML. I deserved it, though. I didn't lurk at all and just jumped right in and posted annoying things. Lol. Floyd told me once that my family was trash. Kristie called me an asshole, but I was being one so it's ok. I think more people don't like me here than like me, but whatevah! KOKO!
I got flamed to high hell on MM for saying "retarded." I did apologize, but things just weren't the same after that.
The last MM straw for me was when somebody sent me a PM shaming me about bringing up kwynn's ridiculous toilet-paper-rolling ways because her husband committed suicide. My post was in a thread about hilarious memorable moments. That toilet paper shit was hilarious, and it in no way sullied the memory of anybody. That was seriously the straw that broke the overly judged camel's back for me. That was the moment I decided to immigrate.
was the TP something funny her H did? I don't see what's wrong with sharing that, especially if they already shared it. Suicide or not, it is nice to hear or remember funny/good stories involving a deceased loved one. Maybe that's just me.
It was beyond hilarious and one of the most epic tales in MM history. To omit it would be wrong.
I was flamed for my husband buying me jello for my birthday one year
LOL! I remember that, but I don't remember you being flamed. I thought it was all good-natured and silly. But I do tend to have rose-colored glasses on (for which I'm surprised I haven't been flamed yet, frankly. )
Lol, that's why I had told the story, and it started out pretty good-natured. It went to a dark place somewhere for like 7 pages or something ridiculous and then looped back to happy
Lol, I remember telling H about it and he basically convinced himself that everybody here HATED him. I remember him wanted me to list off all his good qualities to woo everyone to his side and I was like "ummm, no".
was the TP something funny her H did? I don't see what's wrong with sharing that, especially if they already shared it. Suicide or not, it is nice to hear or remember funny/good stories involving a deceased loved one. Maybe that's just me.
It was beyond hilarious and one of the most epic tales in MM history. To omit it would be wrong.
And the person sending the PM was not the widow, I take it.
I think some people think enduring a loss means never wanting to hear about that person or be reminded, but for a lot of people the opposite is true. Rather than being bogged down in the realities of how they died and the pain, it is nice to remember something funny or good about them.
I crack up thinking about my Gram talking about getting Thai food except she pronounced it 'thigh' food. lol You have to laugh.
Lol, I remember telling H about it and he basically convinced himself that everybody here HATED him. I remember him wanted me to list off all his good qualities to woo everyone to his side and I was like "ummm, no".
Guess what someone is getting on their first Father's Day