Have you survived a flaming here?

[Deleted]

Oh, I have no problem naming names.

I'm completely annoyed that jjwritergirl continues to post here as though she hasn't said moronic shit REPEATEDLY.

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Jun 4, 2013 12:56:31 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Jun 4, 2013 12:51:21 GMT -5 @misoangry said:

It was beyond hilarious and one of the most epic tales in MM history. To omit it would be wrong.

And the person sending the PM was not the widow, I take it.

I think some people think enduring a loss means never wanting to hear about that person or be reminded, but for a lot of people the opposite is true. Rather than being bogged down in the realities of how they died and the pain, it is nice to remember something funny or good about them.

I crack up thinking about my Gram talking about getting  Thai food except she pronounced it 'thigh' food. lol You have to laugh.

Nope. It was not kwynn. There is no doubt in my mind that kwynn would laugh with all of us about the toilet paper rolling. After all, she was the one who told us the fantastic story in the first place.

So, yeah, everybody can blame that one person on her high horse for my final nudge out!

[cheeseandcrackers]

ohhh.. hate thread! i like where this is headed. :/

[speckledfrog]

Jun 4, 2013 12:58:32 GMT -5 @theycalledherkate said:

I was flamed much much more in the knot and nest days. Once y'all realized you couldn't get rid of me everyone just gave up <3

I think that's what happened to Tamb, too.  Kind of like, "Oh, alright.  We'll just love you instead." 

[cleo29]

Jun 4, 2013 13:01:06 GMT -5 @misoangry said:

Jun 4, 2013 12:56:31 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

And the person sending the PM was not the widow, I take it.

I think some people think enduring a loss means never wanting to hear about that person or be reminded, but for a lot of people the opposite is true. Rather than being bogged down in the realities of how they died and the pain, it is nice to remember something funny or good about them.

I crack up thinking about my Gram talking about getting  Thai food except she pronounced it 'thigh' food. lol You have to laugh.

Nope. It was not kwynn. There is no doubt in my mind that kwynn would laugh with all of us about the toilet paper rolling. After all, she was the one who told us the fantastic story in the first place.

So, yeah, everybody can blame that one person on her high horse for my final nudge out!

Well, their loss was our gain. so perhaps I should thank them?

[emptygee]

Jun 4, 2013 13:00:11 GMT -5 @jezebel said:

Oh, I have no problem naming names.

I'm completely annoyed that jjwritergirl continues to post here as though she hasn't said moronic shit REPEATEDLY.

Yeah, I figured that's who. I only remember the f-word fiasco. But I am mainly a lurker.

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Jun 4, 2013 12:32:23 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

I think Immm flamed me first, I was having a bad week and I stuck around.

I know I have been since here and there, but generally it is not so bad that I stay away and I don't even remember names or anything.

the worst that I have received here was when someone said that I "trot my dead dad out to get sympathy" and a bunch of people agreed. that was probably the worst comment ever and really, really hurt. 1) because it's not true, I mention him when it fits the situation or I am missing him or something and 2) it made me feel like I am to never speak of him ever. I don't remember who said that comment and who agree, though I have an idea on some, but man, that really stung.

when you remember who it was, let me know.

so i can kick their asses.

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Jun 4, 2013 13:02:27 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Jun 4, 2013 13:01:06 GMT -5 @misoangry said:

Nope. It was not kwynn. There is no doubt in my mind that kwynn would laugh with all of us about the toilet paper rolling. After all, she was the one who told us the fantastic story in the first place.

So, yeah, everybody can blame that one person on her high horse for my final nudge out!

Well, their loss was our gain. so perhaps I should thank them?

App like!

[polka]

Jun 4, 2013 12:09:51 GMT -5 farmvillelover said:

I'm still here over being flamed about my H and how he's treated me and things he's said and done and me choosing to stay with him. I'm generally pretty low key around here so I wasn't banished off the island or anything.

I never flamed you, but I remember that happening.  It's more about him, but people will direct it towards the person posting here since they can't tell off the spouse.  

Honestly though, I began really noticing (and liking) you after that, and I'm glad because I started paying more attention to your posts and saw how sweet and funny you are.  And you are very pretty, so I still think "huh? dude. seriously? what?" about your H.  Haha

[winnied]

Yeah, once or twice. I'm not nearly memorable enough (good or bad) for people to give a crap about two days later so I keep coming back.

[MWOS]

Me and some lurker got flamed for thinking L&L was JLM before the fiasco. The lurker got it much worse than I did because of DOUBLE STANDARDS. I just kept on keeping on because I thought all you incredible bitches were wrong.

[leahmel]

Ha! Back in the day I survived many flamings.

[fuckyourcouch]

Jun 4, 2013 12:41:52 GMT -5 @misoangry said:

I got flamed to high hell on MM for saying "retarded." I did apologize, but things just weren't the same after that.

The last MM straw for me was when somebody sent me a PM shaming me about bringing up kwynn's ridiculous toilet-paper-rolling ways because her husband committed suicide. My post was in a thread about hilarious memorable moments. That toilet paper shit was hilarious, and it in no way sullied the memory of anybody. That was seriously the straw that broke the overly judged camel's back for me. That was the moment I decided to immigrate.

but do you have a MM accent in person?!

[ijack]

Jun 4, 2013 12:41:52 GMT -5 @misoangry said:

I got flamed to high hell on MM for saying "retarded." I did apologize, but things just weren't the same after that.

The last MM straw for me was when somebody sent me a PM shaming me about bringing up kwynn's ridiculous toilet-paper-rolling ways because her husband committed suicide. My post was in a thread about hilarious memorable moments. That toilet paper shit was hilarious, and it in no way sullied the memory of anybody. That was seriously the straw that broke the overly judged camel's back for me. That was the moment I decided to immigrate.

WHO WAS IT??? I'm going to hunt them down.

[scorpion]

Jun 4, 2013 12:25:22 GMT -5 kevin arnold said:

Jun 4, 2013 12:12:50 GMT -5 emptygee said:

Because these are MEAN GIRLS.

Clearly just overcompensating for our AVERAGE LOOKS.

Wait, can mean girls give false compliments?  "I'm so mean I'm going to try to make you feel better about yourself (for your average looks, of course)"?

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Jun 4, 2013 13:04:45 GMT -5 Que? said:

Jun 4, 2013 13:00:11 GMT -5 @jezebel said:

Oh, I have no problem naming names.

I'm completely annoyed that jjwritergirl continues to post here as though she hasn't said moronic shit REPEATEDLY.

Does anyone really engage her though or does she just keep talking?

She just keeps talking. 

[penelope]

Flamed? Not that I know of. Debated things, sure, but flamed, I don't think so.

Am I accpeted here? I don't think anyone dislikes me, but I think if I disappeared, no one would really notice.

[gretchenindisguise]

Not really.

I mean NoVa ragged on my eyebrows once and Graceland tagteamed along with tonic and amber.

I'm sure Toledo and lhc have told me to fuck off in the past and I've done similarly to them. But I don't consider that a flaming more of a regular argument. Fuck is just fun to say.

Otherwise not a real flaming that I recall.

Sent from my DROIDX using proboards

[sugarbear]

Jun 4, 2013 12:00:10 GMT -5 @misoangry said:

And lived to tell the tale?

What happened? The discussion was suicide, and I mentioned that I'd seen several due to the location of my boathouse (rowing club), which is directly under a huge bridge. I didn't really explain a whole lot more and was flamed to high hell for not moving (people misunderstood and thought I lived in an easily moveable houseboat, which is much different than a built-on-land boathouse). I believe I was called callous and morbid.

How did you bounce back? I lurked for a long time, and only posted randomly, so I figured people wouldn't remember anyway.

Have people accepted you since? I don't know. I assume so, but I don't post a lot.

This thread is brought to you by the Cheerios thread that I still cannot access, but I assume there is flaming because the thread continued.

[litebright]

Nope. I keep a pretty low profile.

Seeing the things that have happened over the years (people's IRL jobs/friends/relatives being contacted, trolls who target specific people because they dislike them, blogs or post-secret type things, etc.), I would rather not draw a whole lot of attention to myself. Flames are part of that. I am deliberately vanilla, lol.

[margotmacomber]

I think I've been called out a couple of times but never flamed.  I keep waiting for the day.

[cleo29]

Jun 4, 2013 13:19:39 GMT -5 HRH Queen Dick I, Orphan said:

Jun 4, 2013 13:04:45 GMT -5 Que? said:

Does anyone really engage her though or does she just keep talking?

it's the phony innocence act that makes me pale.  "oh i was so SHELTERED growing up, i just want to LEARN AND GROW" 

I've met her and don't think it is an act. She is young and seems a bit shy and was on the quiet side.

I'm not defending her comments, but I also don't think she is putting up an act.

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Jun 4, 2013 13:04:45 GMT -5 Que? said:

Jun 4, 2013 13:00:11 GMT -5 @jezebel said:

Oh, I have no problem naming names.

I'm completely annoyed that jjwritergirl continues to post here as though she hasn't said moronic shit REPEATEDLY.

Does anyone really engage her though or does she just keep talking?

I have no idea off the top of my head.

I'm still amazed people "accepted" Bluesmoothie after she said all that racists stuff to DC but DC said they'd made amends so ..... I guess whatever?  I still think of that when I think of Blue, though.

So, I guess some people have selective memories or think some stuff isn't as big a deal.

[BaliHai]

No. I'm still new/not a frequent poster, and I don't feel like I have strong enough opinions about things to get into it with anyone. Maybe someday!

[Deleted]

I constantly put my foot in my mouth here. I get annoyed, then GTFOI and move on. I am probably not super popular here on this board, but whatever. *shrugs*

[Deleted]

I've butted heads with a couple of folks and had one or two try to bait me but nothing earth shattering. The only time I've ever been out right flamed was on a pet board (not the Nest pet board) when I vented that my X-MIL had slapped my dog for begging at the dinner table. Somehow that equated to me being in denial that my X was a wife beater and that I needed to leave him before he killed me and DS.

[Deleted]

I was flamed for being a bitch about my teenage BILs baby shower.

In hindsight, I was right and you bitches were wrong. Those little ungrateful brats didn't deserve shit.

Harrumph.

[joshlyman]

Yep, although mine was pretty tame. Miso just thought I was stalking her and plotting her demise, lolz

[poppyseed]

Laz, all I can see when I look at your avatar are boobs. Not flaming. Just admiring.

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Jun 4, 2013 13:45:02 GMT -5 joshlyman said:

Yep, although mine was pretty tame. Miso just thought I was stalking her and plotting her demise, lolz

I really wish you wouldn't make light of this.

I had my reasons.