Dear pheromones, screw you

[gault]

Any and all?

[achase123]

That's funny!  I find that I'm really attracted to confidence more than anything else.  There can be the "best looking" guy in the room, but if he's not confident he won't do a thing for me. 

[pilife]

Jun 6, 2013 11:51:20 GMT -5 gault said:

Any and all?

:Y:

[mcc]

Are you ovulating? I randomly want to do people when I ovulate who I otherwise wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole

[jm5855]

Jun 6, 2013 11:47:30 GMT -5 mp said:

 He's at least 20 yrs older than me, not really attractive at all, total nerdy engineer type, awkward social skills and kind of cocky.

You just described every dude that attends Star Trek conventions.  Look no further than those conventions to find the man of your dreams!!! 

Live long and prosper MP.  Hahahahahaha!!!!

[ar34]

Confidence and intelligence are soo sexy. That could be it!

[gault]

I just hope for your sake it's confidence and not the cocky-to-cover-up-insecurity that seems rampant with nerds who aren't comfortable in their skin.

If he's not married....what would you do? F'real, would you hit that?

[jm5855]

Jun 6, 2013 12:14:11 GMT -5 mp said:

Jun 6, 2013 12:04:02 GMT -5 jm5855 said:

You just described every dude that attends Star Trek conventions.  Look no further than those conventions to find the man of your dreams!!! 

Live long and prosper MP.  Hahahahahaha!!!!

They also need to make more money than me and be successful in a career to be in this group haha- which rules out at least half the Trekkies.

Please tell me this guy eats hot pockets and Code Red Mountain Dew everyday.

[naeljun]

I am so attracted to cockiness. I hate it.

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Jun 6, 2013 12:55:40 GMT -5 naeljun said:

I am so attracted to cockiness. I hate it.

I'm right here with you. 

[Chelle]

It's the confidence for me. On our first date, my bf told me to stand up and pulled me in for our first kiss and I just about turned to a puddle on the floor. If he hadn't been holding me I'd have fallen on my ass my knees were so weak, something about how sure he was that I would be into kissing him before the obligatory good night kiss.

The week before I'd gone out with another guy and he asked, "So, can I kiss you?" And that so turned me off, I said no.

[achase123]

Jun 6, 2013 13:53:24 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Jun 6, 2013 12:55:40 GMT -5 naeljun said:

I am so attracted to cockiness. I hate it.

I'm right here with you. 

I think there's a fine line.  I love it when someone is sure of themselves, because that's how I am.  But someone who's TOO full of themselves must be compensating for something and it's gross.

[Wrath0fKuus]

Oh, man, I know what you mean. There was once this guy that I was so attracted to, and he seriously wasn't attractive or interesting or particularly smart, and didn't even have a pleasant voice. I think it must have been pheromones, because when he was in smell-range I thought he was hot, but when he got out of range, I'd be like "wtf?!"

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Jun 6, 2013 16:02:52 GMT -5 achase123 said:

Jun 6, 2013 13:53:24 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

I'm right here with you. 

I think there's a fine line.  I love it when someone is sure of themselves, because that's how I am.  But someone who's TOO full of themselves must be compensating for something and it's gross.

I tend to fall for those who are just across the line. I have a bad picker. Ha!

[kaneen]

On my Match profile one of the things I said was that I was looking for a guy who was confident but not arrogant. There's definitely a fine line. Confidence is super sexy. Arrogance is a huge turn off.

So yeah, it's probably a little of everything that you mentioned going on here :-)

[Chelle]

Arrogance is gross. Confidence is a total panty dropper.

[glitzyglow]

I had a guy in one of my grad classes. He knew that he knew everything. It was annoyingly attractive, although nothing else about him was.