NDR: Is this weird?

[sailorgray]

My H plays on an adult hockey league. There is one woman on his team and she gets dressed in the guys' locker room, even though there are other rooms she can use. The part I find odd is that she gets entirely naked. Like, she changes her underwear, bra, etc and shows off all her goods. These are late night games and no one showers after them at the rink. There is no reason for her to remove her underwear. No one else does. My H said that when she is not around all of the other guys talk about it b/c they aren't sure what to make of it. Her H is also on the team and changes right next to her. My H isn't bothered by it, but thinks it's odd. WDYT? Weird? Would it bother you, as his wife (it doesn't bother me - I also think it's weird)? Do you think she just wants attention? I know this is random...

[TBM]

Maybe she sweats a lot a doesn't want to wear sweaty underwear.

I work with dancers..nudity and unisex dressing rooms seem kind of normal to me, but I do know that it isn't normal to most people.

[peach]

weird and gross

[emoflamingo]

I'd say weird. It's weirder that her husband is there and doesn't care.

[kaylie]

Weird, but maybe they have a fetish or something?

[house]

Maybe they are swingers, trying to recruit. LOL!

[sailorgray]

Jun 12, 2012 21:04:09 GMT -5 kaylie said:

I'd say weird, but maybe they have a fetish or something?

This has crossed my mind. I know they visit their local strip club together. I only know this because other teammates were talking about it and my H and I were surprised that their town even has a local strip club.

Anyway, glad to know that I am not the only that thinks it's odd. Thanks, ladies!

[Mushe]

Weird. MH also plays adult league hockey and occasionally has women on his teams. He said weird. The women on his team would just come already wearing a sports bra.

[Mushe]

And now I want to know where you live, because one woman from MH's past team would totally fit this bill and moved away a few years ago!

[housegeek]

I would have a problem with that, that's weird.

[studytime45]

Weird. I mean I'm all for being comfortable with one's body, but if people are talking about it behind her back because they think it's odd then she needs to stop.

[goldengirl]

I think it's very strange. I am very comfortable with my body and with nudity and I would NEVER do that, nor would my H want to see me change in front of a bunch of guys (and he's not jealous). It wouldn't bother me though if my H was in that position. He would tell me about it and we would laugh, but I would still think it's odd.

Can you imagine if it was the reverse though??? A girls sports team w/ one random guy all getting totally undressed? I think the other H's would have a fit, not to mention the random guy enjoying all the gratis nudity.

[gnomesweetgnome]

I definitely think it's weird, mostly that her H is there and doesn't care. The fact that they also visit strip clubs together makes me think they just have different standards/tastes when it comes to nudity and sexuality in general, though.

[mrs.jacinthe]

Weird. I vote that they are exhibitionists. She likes being exposed and he likes her being exposed.

[sailorgray]

Jun 13, 2012 7:45:59 GMT -5 goldengirl said:

Can you imagine if it was the reverse though??? A girls sports team w/ one random guy all getting totally undressed? I think the other H's would have a fit, not to mention the random guy enjoying all the gratis nudity.

I was thinking about this, too. I am pretty sure that the women would have a fit. I know I would NOT allow a man in a women's locker room.