Hai TIP - I give you foolishness

[NitaX]

I ran across this on FB ...



Just FYI - people arguments = love. The person who posted it had a comment about "arguing means that we care."

LMAO. Ummm no.

[partiallysunny]

I would like to knock some heads together right now. Only because I love them and won't keep it a secret that their idea of love is stupid.

[captainmel]

I am going to pick a fight with Boyfriend so he knows I love him. He doesn't like hollandaise sauce so I think yelling at him for that will convince him I really do care about him.

[Wrath0fKuus]

I do think people who never argue are weird. I know a few couples like that, who say that they never argue, have never had one single argument with each other, and they are so completely lukewarm and lackluster toward each other that I can't help but think it's because no one gives enough of a shit to get upset about anything ever.

[Muddled]

We have no secrets, lol!

[captainmel]

I feel like there is a difference between having secrets and having arguments. Boyfriend and I have arguments every time we have to build any flat pack furniture. That has nothing to do with keeping secrets though.

[imoan]

I agree with this. It's not like that says "a lot of arguments". It says "no arguments". And I wholeheartedly agree that people who are smug about never arguing- mark my words- there is at least ONE person in that relationship who totally swallows their feelings.

My stupid coworker's H works for mr. imoan. Yesterday, he made this declaration that in the WHOLE 4 years they've been together, they've NEVER gotten into an argument. And that he believes that means his relationship is more solid. I know his wife. The reason they've never gotten into an argument is because she "yes honey"s the shit out of him. She's so terrified to lose him (he's her first boyfriend) that she just swallows what she really thinks and feels and lets him run the show.

[imoan]

And by "secrets", in my instance- I take that as meaning "secrets about how you really feel"... not that one or both parties is fucking around or stealing money or doing drugs and TOTES lying about it to the other