My brother and his wife: "CONGRATULATIONS! How wonderful!" We talk for half an hour about plans. They ask if they can tell her family. Everyone is super excited.
His brother: "Oh no! What a bummer." DH: "Actually this is a planned and wanted child." BIL: "Oh. Okay. Cool. Congratulations!"
Can you guess who would get custody if anything were to happen? lol.
DH's brother is 41 but not really the kids or marriage type. My brother is 34 and wants kids. I'm still laughing at BIL's response, though. Pretty empathetic for him, just so far off the mark.