I'm blown away by the wedding evite I received this morning:
We don’t want to offend but we have it all, All household goods and so much more. To save you shopping, sit back and rest, A gift of currency is our request. Don’t go overboard or rob any banks, Any little thing will make us smile with thanks. We supply the wishing well, No wrapping, an envelop who can tell. Now that we have saved you all the fuss, It would be appreciated if you would come And celebrate with us
my H's cousin sent us a save-the-date magnet with their engagement photo on it. I put it on the fridge and he said "Is that a part of your new diet plan?" ha.
I'm so embarrassed for her. this person was in my wedding by the way. and I didn't even know she was dating someone, let alone getting married. haven't seen her in maybe 1.5 yrs
Ok, there is a lot I hate about this, but I have to ask - are they saying they want just an envelope or not? The "an envelope who can tell" - I realize they were trying to make the line work in the craptastic poem or whatever it is, but what the hell dohes that mean?
I like what our friend did who's getting married in a few weeks. They registered on Amazon- for like, a couple of dumb camping things and then Amazon gift cards. It makes the point clear that "Hey, we want money" without being tacky, IMO.
I think the worst part is they're making it sound like they're doing YOU a favor! "Sit back and rest" "Now that we've saved you all the fuss." Yeah, aren't you wonderful.
I received something similar from our neighbor. We got the invite asking for no gifts but money instead "to start their new life" complete with a bank account number set aside for deposits all IN THE INVITATION. I about had a heart attack. H went to the wedding, I refused.