I never thought I'd mourn DH's balls

[Marle]

But I've been feeling kind of sad that his snip is done.
It doesn't mean that I regret it or that I don't know that I can still have another baby through adoption if I were to ever change my mind. But still.

I saw this video of someone announcing a new baby to their 2 kids and the excitement of the oldest. It made me weepy. Believe me! I'm ecstatic with only my Logan. But still.

[nursewife]

I'm the same way with my hysterectomy. I had a breakdown after holding a newborn this week. I went through DS's clothes so she could have a bunch. I felt like a moron balling on the way home about it.

[Yankees21]

I bet that finality can be hard (even with reversals, adoption, etc). On the positive side,yay for no more birth control!

[themysteriouswife]

Seems like a normal reaction. Maybe in a few days you will feel better. Keep an open door to the adoption. In a few years you might feel like its the thing to do. Good luck