He apologized this morning when he woke up, so I suppose I'll let him live. I told him that I get that sometimes we all say dumb shit and don't think before we speak, but that this wasn't a compliment done horribly wrong, it was a blatant insult, and that saying those kinds of things makes being comfortable with him difficult. He's usually very good at helping me feel ok about myself, so I'm cutting him some slack this time. Next time? Shot to the balls.