TMI question inside

[papie]

"my husband's penis is too big" is the new "my diamon shoes are too tight".

Joking. I'm sorry, that must really suck. Do you use lube? Has it been only since your baby or before too? I foud that the first year after baby was painful, and then it went back to normal.

[eb777888]

Ugh! I'm sorry.

I've never bled after sex.

[Deleted]

I bleed probably 50% of the time after sex. No clue why. I will usually bleed the day after as well. This has only ever happened with DH. If you find out the cause let me know lol

Eta. DH is also larger than others I've been with. 

[VeryViolet]

That sounds like it could be a yeast infection. Sometimes painful sex and blood is the first symptom I get.

[papie]

Oh and I do get a teeny bit of spotting sometimes, maybe every third time or so? But just pink, not bright red.

[LeggsBenedict]

This happens to me probably once every few months, but never as much as it sounds like you're bleeding.

I'm not asking for details here (lol), but is it possible you got scratched, maybe with a fingernail?

[Jalapeñomel]

He could´ve been really ramming into your cervix (sorry, LOL), causing it to bleed.

[VeryViolet]

Jul 5, 2013 12:15:37 GMT -5 farmvillelover said:

Jul 5, 2013 12:11:53 GMT -5 VeryViolet said:

That sounds like it could be a yeast infection. Sometimes painful sex and blood is the first symptom I get.

Never had one before?  I will email my dr and see what she says about this.

If you have never had one I feel like it is probably something else but who knows. The painful sex and blood being the first symptom is newer for me but I have been prone to just getting yeast infections for forever. The first time it happened I was very concerned and then a day or two later I had more traditional symptoms and figured it out. I wouldn't jump to terrible thoughts but it probably wouldn't hurt to get the doctor to check it out. It could just be as simple as your cervix getting really irritated too.

[jacquie]

Jul 5, 2013 12:17:45 GMT -5 @licia said:

In my expert opinion...as not an expert...since it was bright red, I would say it's probably some kind of injury or irritation. Since he was awfully enthusiastic, maybe there's a little tear or cervical irritation?

Yeast/bacterial infection is also a possibility.

I rarely bleed after sex, but it has started happening more often after I had my kiddo.

This was going to be suggestion, too. Has your H trimmed his fingernails recently? Maybe he scratched you during foreplay. Maybe he jabbed your cervix with his penis.

Since having Merena placed, I spot more frequently. It usually happens if H bumps into my cervix during sex. Ouch. I wouldn't say it's as heavy as during my period (though, now I pretty much don't have a period), but it can be substantial.

[Deleted]

I get this if its been too long between sex, if H is overly enthusiastic, if he goes too hard once or twice. My dr said he more than likely is injuring my cervix a tiny amount. I also bleed after sex if I've had an ovarian cyst burst recently.

[snickers]

I sometimes bleed after sex but not much and not for longer than 12 hours I would say.
Sorry, it's shitty

[pantsparty]

There is some blood somewhat irregularly. It doesn't happen a ton, just a few times a month, but just a little blood, nothing bright red. If it's not regular, I wouldn't be overly concerned.

[juliagoulia]

Jul 5, 2013 12:26:37 GMT -5 farmvillelover said:

Thanks again ladies.
I'll be back later, have to pound out this project so I can leave the office

That's what got you into this mess in the first place. 

[saraandmichael]

this used to happen to me (it came to a head when there was so much blood that sex was actually unpleasant). it was because he was hitting my cervix and irritating it, which caused the bleeding. my gyn did a cryo freeze and it hasn't happened since.