Thanks for taking a newb under your wing

[Deleted]

Your kind words really do mean something to me. I have a ton of IRL support. I have no idea where we stand. I always thought this would be a deal breaker for me. Of course it is way too soon to make a decision.

[azurely]

::hugs::

Take all of the time you need. He owes you that, at the very least. It's a huge decision to make, especially with kids involved.

Lean on your IRL and GBCN support as much as you need. The ladies here give fabulous, unbiased advice.

[thinklikeajellyfish]

Jul 9, 2013 22:04:50 GMT -5 azurely said:

::hugs::

Take all of the time you need. He owes you that, at the very least. It's a huge decision to make, especially with kids involved.

Lean on your IRL and GBCN support as much as you need. The ladies here give fabulous, unbiased advice.

All of this exactly

(hug) (hug2)

[hisno1girl]

This board is full of amazing, honest, caring, and smart women. They've helped me through some of the worst periods of my life and they will help you too.

Good luck!

[cleo29]

I think just take time and do what is best for you, your family, your marriage, etc. There are no right or wrong answers here and there isn't a set time to do whatever it is you decide to do. Just take it as it comes, let yourself feel what you are feeling.

I'm so sorry that you are going through this.

[margotmacomber]

For a board full of incredible bitches, we can all unite in support for someone in need.  I hope you find peace.  

You don't have to make a decision right now.  Take the time to figure it out on YOUR schedule.

[joshlyman]

((Hugs))

[PeonyParty]

((HUGS))
I'm glad you're reaching out for support and I'm glad we can give that to you. Remember- this is your marriage. Take as much time as you need to decide what is best for you and your family. Please feel free to vent, ask advice, look for virtual hugs, anything!

[lilybug]

<3 <3

Take all the time you need. And I'm so glad that you have support IRL, too.

[girlfriday11]

Big hugs to you!

[VillainV]

I'm really sorry you are going through this. You've gotten some very good advice. You have to follow YOUR heart on this one, and not worry about what other people think or what they tell you THEY would do in your position. Even people who have been in your position aren't experts on your marriage. You are the only one who can make the right decision for YOU, and you will :-) Lots of hugs to you.

[lime]

More big hugs and best wishes going forward.

[Deleted]

(((hugs)))

[oliveyou]

Hugs!