And calls DH "dad". Why? She is 2.5! My oldest still calls us mommy and daddy. "ok mom" "bye mom" "good job mom" "that's my dad" It is killing me. This baby will be the death of me.
Post by ElizabethBennet on Jul 11, 2013 20:55:44 GMT -5
About half the time D calls me mom. Her favorite is "mom mom". If she can't get H's attention by calling him Daddy she'll call him by his first name.
She REFUSES to call my family by grandma, grandpa, etc. My mom is Dodo, my dad is Bumpa, my sister is Mimi, and my brother is Opie(? lol). My brother's name cracks me up the most because it is nothing like his real name. But she refuses to call them anything else.
I had a little girl in my class who was one. Her moms name was Lisa. Her mom would walk in everyday and the little girl would always says "hi Lisa" that poor mom would get so frustrated
My 3 year old just started doing this and it is NOT OKAY! lol. I correct him every time and tell him he's too little to call me mom. I think I said mommy and daddy until I was at least 6 or so!
He doesn't think the context is the same. He thinks 'mer' is more formal, kind of like 'mom', but it doesn't carry the same formal, stodginess that an American saying 'mother' would.
ETA: Like a little kid would probably say 'maman' and would move on to saying 'mer' as they got older, just like American kids say 'mommy' and then move on to saying 'mom'. He says 'mer' is less formal and 'maman' is less juvenile, so it seems like 'mom' could really be either and 'maman' could easily be a lifelong term for a kid, but they could also move on to saying 'mer'. French is complicated, yo.
Post by LauraMoser on Jul 11, 2013 22:19:31 GMT -5
lol
My DD2 had heard someone say MIL's first name and had called her by that for a while instead of the usual "Grandma". It was cute, but I think it bothered MIL a little, lol. She has gone back to calling her "Grandma" now.
And, P.S., totally off subject, but did you get your couch yet??
ugh. No! They said a couple of weeks,but I'm ready for that damn thing to come! We have all these ugly mismatched blankets covering our current couches, and it's fucking up all my pics of J. lol
Grrr. I'm irritated on your behalf. But also because I'll be ready to buy my couch in a couple weeks and I want a fair assessment of this one! (And nothing can possibly fuck up a picture of J. There's way too much cute in that kid.)
He doesn't think the context is the same. He thinks 'mer' is more formal, kind of like 'mom', but it doesn't carry the same formal, stodginess that an American saying 'mother' would.
ETA: Like a little kid would probably say 'maman' and would move on to saying 'mer' as they got older, just like American kids say 'mommy' and then move on to saying 'mom'. He says 'mer' is less formal and 'maman' is less juvenile, so it seems like 'mom' could really be either and 'maman' could easily be a lifelong term for a kid, but they could also move on to saying 'mer'. French is complicated, yo.
well here in Quebec it is "m'ma!" But Sophia actually calls me mom, because she speaks to me in English about half the time...
Eta again lol Kids say maman when talking to mommy and ma maman when talking about their mommy Teens say m'ma when talking to their mom and ma mere when talking about their mom.
When my son calls me "mom", I call him "Grade" (his name is Grady) in return. It pisses him off I love it. He goes right back to calling me "mama" after a couple of exchanges.
well here in Quebec it is "m'ma!" But Sophia actually calls me mom, because she speaks to me in English about half the time...
Eta again lol Kids say maman when talking to mommy and ma maman when talking about their mommy Teens say m'ma when talking to their mom and ma mere when talking about their mom.
DH says this makes sense. And he appreciates the lesson.
He took French throughout high school and some in college, so he knows a decent amount, but he's not like fluent or anything. I totally should have let you just answer her question.
My 2 year old calls me honey. It's hilarious though. I'll be in the other room and just hear his little voice "hahney? Hahney?! HAAAAAAHNEY!!!"
LOL! DS called me sweetie yesterday, and I explained that I can call him sweetie but he can't call me sweetie, which I'm sure made absolutely no sense to him.